Kita sbg orang tua harus tegas ... bijaksana ... jeli ... dlm hal pemberian reward ini ... jgn sampai reward ini malah menjadi bumerang bagi kita sbg ortu maupun bagi si anak sendiri .... Krn seringkali saya liat dr temen2 saya sendiri akhirnya reward ini malah dijadikan senjata bagi anak2 kita ... tp kita tdk bias menyalahkan anak2 jg krn kita sendiri yg membiasakannya, misalnya klo ga mau makan ... ayo makan ya ntar klo makannya pinter mama belikan boneka/mobil2an, ntar klo PR-nya selesai mama belikan ice cream ... akhirnya jadinya ntar kalo .. ntar klo .. ntar klo ... dan akhirnya reward udah berubah menjadi sesuatu senjata ampuh bagi anak .... tul apa yg dikatakan mbak Esti ... reward tdk hrs berupa barang bisa juga berupa pujian, pelukan sayang, ciuman, kata2 yg memberikan semangat dll, sekali2 bolehlah berupa barang ... asal jgn keseringan aja ... takutnya ntar malah jd alat pembayaran (transaksi) antara anak dan ortu ... GBU Devi, mama Gabby DISCLAIMER : The information contained in this communication (including any attachments) is priveleged and confidential, and may be legally exempt from disclosure under applicable law. It is intended only for the specific purpose of being used by the individual or entity to whom it is addressed. If you are not the addressee indicated in this message (or are responsible for delivery of the message to such person), you must not disclose, disseminate, distribute, deliver, copy, circulate, rely on or use any of the information contained in this transmission. We apologize if you have received this communication in error; kindly inform the sender accordingly. Please also ensure that this original message and any record of it is permanently deleted from your computer system. We do not give or endorse any opinions, conclusions and other information in this message that do not relate to our official business. AYO GALANG SOLIDARITAS UNTUK MEMBANTU KORBAN MUSIBAH DI ACEH & DAN SUMATERA UTARA !!! ================ Kirim bunga, http://www.indokado.com Info balita: http://www.balita-anda.com Stop berlangganan/unsubscribe dari milis ini, e-mail ke: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Peraturan milis, email ke: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
