Mbak Shandra yang baik,
Mbak dimana ya beli bukunya, bisa Saya tau toko tempat Mbak Sadra beli
bukunya?
Terimakasih.
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> From: Shandra Amril - Tripatra[SMTP:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
> Reply To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
> Sent: Monday, June 28, 1999 11:12 AM
> To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
> Subject: RE: [balita-anda] Buku penuntun "MENINGKATKAN KECERDASAN
> ANAK"
> Importance: High
>
> Buat Ibu Zulia,
>
> Bukunya memang bagus sekali, memang sih hasil terjemahan, tetapi bisa
> dimengerti oleh orang awam sekalipun dan berdasarkan hasil survey di
> sebuah
> sekolah oleh Dr.Montessory, Amerika.
> Berikut saya lampirkan daftar isi buku tersebut secara global :
> 1. Anda alah guru pertama dan terbaik bagi anak
> 2. Mengapa anak bisa dididik menjadi lebih cerdas
> 3. Suasana rumah dapat merangsang kecerdasan anak.
> 4. Mendidik bayi menjadi lebih cerdas, mulai lahir sampai 18 bulan
> 5. Haus belajar yang tak terpuaskan mulai usia 18 bulan sampai 3 tahun
> 6. Bagaimana merangsang perkembangan intelektual anak berusia 3 tahun
> sampai
> 6 tahun
> 7. Perlukah anak prasekolah belajar membaca
> 8. Merangsang anak menjadi kreatif
> 9. Gagasan Montessory yang dapat digunakan dirumah
> 10.Bagaimana melindungi otak anak
> 11.Melindungi bayi sebelum lahir
> 12.Kegembiraan memiliki anak yang cerdas
>
> Demikianlah sekilas info, mudah-mudahan bermanfaat. Salam.
>
> Shandra
>
>
>
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: Zulia Saida [SMTP:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
> > Sent: Monday, June 28, 1999 8:49 AM
> > To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
> > Subject: re: [balita-anda] Buku penuntun "MENINGKATKAN KECERDASAN
> > ANAK"
> >
> >
> > Terima kasih atas info-nya. Saya juga melihat buku-buku dg tema yang
> > hampir
> > sama. Tapi saya agak ragu membelinya, krn. : 1) Jika itu terjemahan/alih
>
> > bahasa, saya takut kecewa jika terjemahannya kurang bagus. Bagaimana
> > pendapat Ibu tentang hasil terjemahannya, setelah Ibu membacanya?; 2)
> > Seperti di mail sebelumnya, banyak faktor yg. mempengaruhi kecerdasan,
>
> > baik faktor genetik, gizi, rangsangan (stimuli) dlsb. Bahkan, ada yg.
> > mengatakan bhw. EQ (emotional Intelligent) juga sudah bisa di'bentuk'
> pada
> >
> > usia balita. Apakah buku tsb. juga membahas hal2 di atas?
> >
> > Maaf yha, Bu. Mohon bantuan Ibu krn. saya butuh info lebih banyak lagi.
> > Terima kasih,
> >
> >
> > Zullia Saida
> > United States Agency for International Development (USAID)
> > American Embassy
> > Jl. Merdeka Selatan 3-5
> > Jakarta 10110
> > Phone : (62-21) 344 2211 ext. 2356
> > Fax : (62-21) 3483 0916
> > e-mail: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
> >
> >
> > -------------
> > Original Text
> > From: "Shandra Amril - Tripatra" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>, on 6/28/99 8:42
> AM:
> > Dear netters,
> >
> > Sekedar info, saya telah membaca judul buku diatas dan ternyata isinya
> > bagus
> > sekali untuk bimbingan kita sebagai orang tua dalam meningkatkamn
> > kecerdasan
> > anak, bagi rekan netter yang berminat dapatkan segera di toko buku
> > terdekat.
> > Penerbit PT Delapratasa, karangan Joan Beck, merupakan salah satu "buku
> > best
> > seller"nya cetakan tahun 1998 harganya sekitar 17 ribuan. Salam, maaf
> jika
> > topik ini sudah dibahas sebelumnya....
> >
> >
> > Shandra
> >
> > > -----Original Message-----
> > > From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [SMTP:[EMAIL PROTECTED]]
> > > Sent: Saturday, June 26, 1999 12:22 PM
> > > To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
> > > Subject: [bal
> > ita-anda] when good parents do bad things.
> > >
> > > From Oprah Winfrey's Show
> > > Friday's Show: The 7 Worst Things Parents Do
> > >
> > > When Good Parents do Bad Things
> > >
> > > Even the best parents can be guilty of doing one or more of The 7
> Worst
> >
> > > Things Parents Do. In fact, it's often the good parents who make the
> > > mistakes
> > > outlined in John and Linda Friel's new book. Are you one of them? If
> you
> > > care
> > > about your children at all, it's likely you are.
> > >
> > > Mistake #1
> > > Putting Your Marriage Last: Good parents often say - in a way that can
> > > almost
> > > sound boastful - that their children are their life and everything
> else
> > > comes
> > > second to them. It might sound good to neighbors and friends, but
> > > according
> > > to the Friels it's an approach that can be disastrous for you, your
> > > marriage
> > > and your children. "When kids grow up in a child-focused family," says
> > > John,
> > > "they grow up not knowing what a good marriage is." Show them by
> putting
> > > your
> > > spouse first. Your children will learn how a solid relationship
> > operates.
> > >
> > > Mistake #2
> > > Babying Your Child: It's understandable that you don't want your child
> > to
> > > suffer even the slightest disappointment. Unfortunately,
> disappointment
> > is
> > > a
> > > fact of life we all have to learn to live with, and home is a better
> > place
> > > to
> > > learn it than at school or in the workplace. If you find yourself
> doing
> > > things for your child he or she could do, resenting and pitying your
> > child
> > > at
> > > the same time, or being unable to see your child struggle with
> anything,
> > > you
> > > could be babying your child... and in effect, raising a baby!
> > >
> > > Mistake #3
> > > Failing to Give Your Child Structure: Kids want structure in their
> lives
> >
> > > whether they act like it or not. A lack of structure can show up in a
> > > number
> > > of ways, from failing to give your child chores (and expecting them to
> > be
> > > done) to creating a relationship with your little one that's more like
> > > "best
> > > friends" than parent and child. Which brings us to...
> > >
> > > Mistake #4
> > > Being Your Child's Best Friend: "Hip" parents often commit this
> > blunder,
> > > largely because they'd rather be liked by their child than
> respected...
> > or
> > >
> > > because they fear making their child angry. Sorry folks, but "you
> can't
> > be
> > > a
> > > good parent, therapist or teacher if you can't stand to have people
> > angry
> > > at
> > > you," according to John. Or a talk show host, added Oprah.
> > Unfortunately,
> > > occasional anger goes with the parental territory, and it's important
> > for
> > > your child to learn that you can be angry with someone and still love
> > > them.
> > >
> > > Mistake #5
> > > Pushing Your Child Into Too Many Activities: Too many over-achieving
> > > parents
> > > can't wait to watch their little ones follow in their footsteps. But
> is
> > > there
> > > anything sadder than an eight-year-old who has to carry a Filofax to
> > keep
> > > all
> > > his commitments straight... or a parent who has to play taxi driver to
> > > make
> > > them all happen? One activity that your child enjoys is enough for
> both
> > of
> > >
> > > you!
> > >
> > > Mistake #6
> > > Expecting Your Child to Fulfill Your Dreams: This mistake goes
> > > hand-in-hand
> > > with number five, and it's an error that the Friels warn can "destroy
> > your
> > >
> > > child's spirit." Children are genetically disposed to excel in some
> > things
> > >
> > > and not in others. Don't push your little painter to become a
> physicist
> > or
> > >
> > > vice versa. "You wind up with a child who has a broken spirit," warns
> > > John,
> > > "and society can lose the next Picasso or Einstein."
> > >
> > > Mistake #7
> > > Ignoring Your Emotional and/or Spiritual Life:
> > > We need to fulfill our needs, emotional and spiritual needs in order
> to
> > be
> > >
> > > able to give to other people/to our children.
> > >
> > > note:
> > > dalam show tsb, dijelaskan pengarang buku tsb John dan Linda Friel
> > > mengatakan
> > > bahwa yang mereka maksud di atas adalah untuk pasangan yang solid,
> good
> > > parents, yang terkadang tanpa disadari melakukan sesuatu yang
> > > berakibat/memberi efek negatif di kemudian hari,
> > > mereka tidak menujukan kepada pasangan yang mengalami abusif
> > relationship,
> > >
> > > atau anak di-abuse dsb, tentunya itu amat jauh lebih buruk.
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > Kunjungi:
> > > http://www.balita-anda.indoglobal.com
> > >
> > >
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