> "Either way f--- your sarcasm and take a look at the real issue
of email
> etiquette."
> 
> Robert - nice
that you lecture people on email etiquette while cursing at
>
them. Unintended irony? Pot calling the kettle black? Anyway....

No, intended, not unintended.  I was responding in kind to the
hostile and sarcastic tone of the original response, and regret that I
escalated it an additional step rather than de-escalated it.  It may
not have been Donna's intention, and I strongly doubt that what came
across in email from either of us accurately represents how the
interaction would have gone in person.  Sorry.

> This
was hashed out on the listserv a few months back if I recall, and the
> general consensus among people who replied and the list admin was
that
> attachments should be allowed. Specifically:
> 
> " The position of the list administrator is:
> 
> I'm open to bumping up the size limit to something like 30Mb. This
should
> allow sending small or medium-sized documents.
>
But this list isn't really intended for distributing large documents.

That was Darin's FIRST response (which in itself states his
opinion that the list shouldn't be used for distributing documents), but
he sent another message on the topic afterward that was more
restrictive.  If someone can remind me of the range of dates, it's
possible that I might have saved it and can share it with you to bring you
up to date.

> While I agree that links should be provided
when the are available, this isn't 1994, and
> attachments are a
regular part of email these days and are not considered a violation
> of some unwritten etiquette.

I readily use attachments
for work, volunteer, and personal email when it is appropriate to use
email for a file transfer.  But just because the capability exists
doesn't mean it should be used in all circumstances.  The fundamental
difference you are apparently failing to comprehend is that you cannot
ethically assume that what might be appropriate to do with clients,
colleagues, and personal friends is also going to be appropriate for a
large list of people you may not know and you may not have much else in
common except some shared interest in one or more of a wide variety of
issues relating to bicycle transportation. 

Although you may
haughtily dismiss a variety of computing-related concerns as being in some
way quaint or antiquated, it is extremely presumptuous for you to assume
that none of them should any longer be of concern to anyone else, because,
well, because you said so, You don't know that there might not be someone
using dialup.  You don't know that some email accounts have storage
quotas.  And it's not enough just to say delete it without opening
it, because some harms can be caused just by its being delivered and
taking up space on the server if it sits there for a couple days or a
couple hours before the nonconsenting recipient of a large and possibly
trivial file attachment hasn't had a chance to delete it yet, and then
other people trying to email that recipient wonder why there messages are
being rejected or are getting "mailbox full" error
messages.  You don't know what inadvertently infected documents might
or might not be caught by a security scan.  You don't know if someone
else is reading email on a phone that might have a costly data plan. You
don't know about many other possible concerns someone might have. 
With hundreds of people on the list, there are so many things that you
just don't know about the hundreds of individual situations that it makes
it inappropriate to assume that it's okay to send anything other than a
plain text email.

If it's a document you found online, just
share the URL and have the courtesy to respect the recipient's decision to
view or download--or NOT view or download it--rather than just presuming
to ram it down everyone else's inboxes. If it's a document you created or
that was passed along to you by someone else and you want others on the
list to see it (or to have the option to see it), it becomes YOUR
responsibility to put it online in some personal file sharing space of
yours, such as Dropbox, CX, SkyDrive, UbuntuOne, or whatever else you
might use (rather than taking the lazy way out and making the improper
assumption that it's okay to indiscriminately send it to everyone), to
give the hundreds of others on the list that same option of obtaining a
copy or not, as they would have in the situation in which it is already
accessible online. 

Remember, the list members are not your
personal friends, clients, or colleagues, so different procedures
apply.


 


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