Hi, Quinten.
I could not agree more about this. There does come a time when a person 
must stand up and act like a man or woman, and say look I am this age 
and let me make up my own mind. If the parent  involved does not like 
it. Tuff luck!
As for buying games there are several accessible games I would like to 
have. GMA Tank Commander being one of them. However, I save for those 
titles and spend the money as I can. I have lived this long without it, 
and I am sure I can wait longer.

 Quinten Pendle wrote:
> Hi All
>
> Just a few thoughts:
> This whole idea of sending an email, asking someone to please buy you a
> game, simply because your dad is a control freak, In my opinion, is
> pretty unhealthy.
> If you're 28, and your dad still controls how you spend your money, left
> alone living your life, I would say the problem is not with your dad.
> I would think you're grown up enough now to tell your dad:  Look Dad,
> I'm 28 now.
> It is time to back off.  I'm grown up enough now to make my own
> decisions."
>
> There are many ways to kill a cat.
> If you don't have a credit card or a paypal account, give someone else
> the money, so that he or she can buy the game for you.
> Many of us are in a position where we cannot afford games every day of
> our lives, or we don't have credit cards or paypal accounts.
> And you know what?
> The weird thing is, we get along without these games.
> I admit, there are a few games on here I would really like, but I will
> wait patiently until I am in a position to buy myself these games.
>
> Another thing that is of concern to me, is that, this can lead to any
> Tom, Dick and Harry sending out emails, begging for games.
>
> One last thought:
> In what position does such a request place the game developers?
> Think carefully before you answer.
> If you are a game developer, and you read a mail from someone asking the
> community to buy him/her one of your products, what would you think, and
> how would you feel/react?
> Sorry if I stepped on someone's toes.
> Just my 2 cents worth, however.
>
>
>
> From: [email protected] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> On Behalf Of Charles Rivard
> Sent: Wednesday, December 07, 2005 4:02 PM
> To: [email protected]
> Subject: Re: audyssey: a game for christmass
>
>
> And you're not old enough to decide how to spend your own money??  You
> are 
> an adult!  Buy your own games.
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: "Nicol Oosthuizen" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> To: <[email protected]>
> Sent: Tuesday, December 06, 2005 10:47 PM
> Subject: RE: audyssey: a game for christmass
>
>
>   
>> NB: This email and its contents are subject to our email legal notice 
>> which can be viewed at http://www.sars.gov.za/Email_Disclaimer.pdf
>>
>> ----
>> 16 november I turned 28
>>
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: [email protected] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>> Sent: 06 December 2005 03:51 PM
>> To: [email protected]
>> Subject: Re: audyssey: a game for christmass
>>
>> How old are you?  Thanks.
>> ----- Original Message -----
>> From: "Nicol Oosthuizen" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>> To: <[email protected]>
>> Sent: Tuesday, December 06, 2005 4:50 AM
>> Subject: audyssey: a game for christmass
>>
>>
>>     
>>> NB: This email and its contents are subject to our email legal notice
>>>       
>
>   
>>> which can be viewed at http://www.sars.gov.za/Email_Disclaimer.pdf
>>>
>>> ----
>>> Guys, I  realize that you actually don't know me well.  I've only 
>>> sent posts to the list and that's how you got to know about me. But 
>>> you
>>>       
>> don't
>>     
>>> know me as well as the other list members  whom you might be in
>>>       
>> closer
>>     
>>> contact with. but you are my friends; I view you as my friends and I 
>>> want to ask: is it possible for you to buy me a game for  christmass?
>>>       
>
>   
>>> There's  really a special reason why I'm asking.  As I told  you I
>>>       
>> have
>>     
>>> a real strict dad that decides on all my finances. He  doesn't 
>>> understand the games for the blind. He thinks it's  crap to spend
>>>       
>> money
>>     
>>> on such games no matter how I explain to him. so there's no way I can
>>>       
>
>   
>>> get pass him to get myself a game. My brother would have bought me
>>>       
> the
>   
>>> tarzan game but he don't   understand the paypal. He's giving up
>>>       
>> trying
>>     
>>> to figure paypal out. He said straight forward he's not going to  try
>>>       
>> to
>>     
>>> buy that game anymore.  I would really like the tarzan junior game. I
>>>       
>
>   
>>> would  appreciate it so much if  you can be my friends having real 
>>> sympathy for me
>>>
>>> It's not nice to  have a dad controlling  every bit of my finances
>>>
>>> I would  heartly appreciate tarzan junior for Christmas
>>>
>>> If the situation was anyhow easier I would really not ask such a 
>>> thing
>>>
>>> I don't want to be a parasite. But it's making me really unhappy to 
>>> be treated like a child no matter how hard I try to fight for my 
>>> freedom against my dad
>>>
>>> As I previously explained, my dad feels he must control my finances
>>>       
>> like
>>     
>>> a child because my mom only educated me religion. I wasn't educated
>>>       
>> the
>>     
>>> normal things other children were educated. My  childhood education
>>>       
>> only
>>     
>>> consisted out of  religion
>>>
>>> One day when it happens that I get more control over my finances I'll
>>>       
>
>   
>>> buy you a present like a game for christmass. That's a big promise!!
>>>
>>> Your understanding is highly appreciated
>>>
>>> from your dear friend
>>>
>>>
>>>
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