Teresa,
Good luck on your trip. I just came back from a trip to the beach with the MIL. Let's
just say I came home three days early! It is going to be hard to leave Emma. This is
our plan, but being that I have never been away (for any real amount of time) we'll
see how this goes.
Jennifer
----- Original Message -----
From: T Eli
To: bfing
Sent: Wednesday, August 18, 2004 4:39 PM
Subject: [bfing] Re: New to the Group
Jennifer - I can so relate to you with the sleep thing and thinking about weaning.
My daughter Faith is only 9 months, so we're both nowhere near ready to wean. But the
night wakenings and lack of naps gets so exhausting! Same thing with my DH, too - he
goes to work around 6:30, and works long hours, so I feel I can't make him get up
during the night. She often ends up in bed with us too, simply because I get too
tired to nurse her back to sleep and then put her in her crib, which I usually have to
do 2 or 3 times until she settles and stays asleep in there; it's just easier to bring
her to our bed, latch her on, then go to sleep. But our bed is so small and crowded!
People make those comments to us too, so I've just gotten to avoid the subject. It
will be rough next week when we take our vacation, especially the first part when we
visit my DH's parents, as they are so into a different style of parenting (she thought
I was spoiling the baby by picking her up when sh!
e cried at 1 month old! And she didn't breastfeed her kids). I couldn't imagine
taking the trip without her though...good luck and hope you have a good time!
Jennifer Buys <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
ML - Sorry, I am just getting back to you... we were on vacation.
And no, you are not being too nosey... In a nutshell... I am exhausted. I had a
very difficult pregnancy and have not slept through the night since she was born. So
add it all together I haven't slept through the night in over a year and a half.
About every two weeks, I think I just have a break down and the exhaustion and sleep
deprivation takes over and I think "that's it' we're weaning". My daughter still
feeds about 4-6 times a night. And while I do treasure the entire BF experience and
the bonding and the benefits for her, I know there are days when I am a lousy Mommy,
because I am so tired. That's not fair to her either. I also know that getting her
weaned is not a guarantee that she will sleep through the night. And as far as DH
doing night duty... he is self employed, works about 16 hours a day, gone by 4am
everyday and is not fair to him to stay up all night either. We have discussed
picking a week and trying him with night duty and/or CIO. But in my hea!
rt I know I will not be able to do CIO. And for the most part, she wakes and want to
eat, we get latched and I usually fall right back to sleep. But oh, what I wouldn't
do for 6 hours in a row. I know this is a short phase. It has been inspiring to read
all of the posts - that this to shall, pass and that I am not the only one not
sleeping. I am told often that we have "ruined her" or "spoiled her" - she sleeps
with us, doesn't nap well, if at all and doesn't sleep through the night. I have just
learned to reply we are doing what feels right to us and what works for us - and
right now this feels right and is working.
Also, part of my weaning panic/crisis last month was DH and I are taking a 4 day
trip, sans baby. I am leaving her with my mom. And began to panic, because I have two
extra bags of milk frozen, other than that she eats pretty much all I can pump. I
have always been able to pump a bottle a day extra, have never had a problem with
pumping or let down. But suddenly last month, I was no longer able to get any surplus
bottles and Emma wouldn't take any formula. Any formula - any brand, pre-mixed, powder
it didn't matter. My ped said it was OK to try milk early, just watch for reactions.
But she loves yogurt and cheese and so far we have been doing fine. So I can feel
comfortable with leaving her, now that she will take something other than breast milk.
I'll just freeze what I can and my mom can supplement. My Mom just won't sleep for a
few nights! I also was not wanting to drag my pump to Mexico, but you do what you got
to do!
I know this is rambling, but I have to hurry, while I have a few napping
minutes....
Jennifer
----- Original Message -----
From: ML
To: bfing
Sent: Thursday, August 12, 2004 3:45 PM
Subject: [bfing] Re: New to the Group
Welcome! One of my sons birthdays is sept 18th. How come you already want to
wean? (sorry if I am being nosey!) ml
----- Original Message -----
From: Jennifer Buys
To: bfing
Sent: Thursday, August 12, 2004 5:00 PM
Subject: [bfing] New to the Group
Kelli - Your welcome! Happy to be able to help.
To Everyone Else.... I feel awful, I have never actually "introducing" myself.
I have never joined any chat groups or email lists before and stumbled into/across
your list through ibreastfeeding.com, while having a weaning crisis. Still trying to
wean, but it has become more of a ongoing issue rather than full blown crisis. I have
been "lurking" for some time now. I really enjoy reading everyone's correspondence.
Sad, but it helps to know that I am not the only one in a particular situation -
teeth, weaning, pumping, supply, blah, blah, blah.
I am 31 and live in California with my husband and our baby girl, Emma Isabel,
born Sept 18, 2003. She is our first and we hope to have one more. But ask me on the
days when I am sooo overwhelmed, I haven't showered or cleaned the house and I think
"one is plenty"!. I have no idea how'd I handle one more. I had been working as a
Labor & Delivery nurse, but am now on the world's longest maternity leave. I had a
crappy, difficult pregnancy along with some crappy, difficult health problems during
my pregnancy. So, I figured there will always be work and I am trying to treasure the
luxury of being able to stay at home. Which, by the way, can be much more difficult
that my hardest day at work in the hospital.
Anyway, sorry to just eavesdrop! And hopefully I will have more to actually
contribute than fashion tips!
Also, someone was having difficulty with supply. I know "Mother's Milk" tea
was mentioned - you may also want to try Fenugreek and Brewer's Yeast available at any
health food store. Both are good for production.
Jennifer
----- Original Message -----
From: kelli randolph
To: bfing
Sent: Thursday, August 12, 2004 2:26 PM
Subject: [bfing] Re: Haba
jennifer---thank you thank you thank you! I have scoured the net looking
for it for an hour! You made my day! kelli
----- Original Message -----
From: Jennifer Buys
To: bfing
Sent: Thursday, August 12, 2004 12:31 PM
Subject: [bfing] Re: Haba
Not to butt in... I haven't seen the catalog, but this site may have the
shirt you are talking about. If not, it's worth a peek - some cute things!
http://www.babyknowsbreast.com/designs.html
Jennifer
----- Original Message -----
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: bfing
Sent: Thursday, August 12, 2004 11:51 AM
Subject: [bfing] Re: Haba
In a message dated 8/12/2004 11:19:08 AM Pacific Standard Time, [EMAIL
PROTECTED] writes:
hi kim and thank you for the ubb catalog. i have just one
question...in the front cover with the family pictures, the shirt on the baby boy that
says, "nice legs but i am a boob man myself" 100% breastfed. Where did you get
that??? my husband and i love and want one for our newborn son. can you help? love
kelli
sorry kelli .. we do not sell that t shirt but i DO love it :)
hugs, kim
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