> I value honesty a great deal, but I think I've found something that
> I value more than it: respect. Honesty and respect rarely conflict,
> but when they do, I'll choose the course which respects the
> person I'm interacting with. I think that covers the "does this
> dress look good on me" scenario.
While I like how that sounds, I've seen respect, especially the demand
for respect, used as a weapon and a tool for not listening to honest
feedback way too often.
Given a choice between honesty and respect, I'll choose honesty.
I'll take respect when I see it and give it when I can, but if it
becomes a barrier to communication between equals then it becomes
disserving.
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