> identify as bisexual), but I'm not going to tell them that it will be > easy or that they will ever find that one person who fulfills them > completely (which I think is a Disneyism anyway). > > I think monogamy might work a lot better in a culture in which > families / communities were more involved with each other -- that is > -- our culture seems hell-bent on this idea of making your monogamous > romantic partner your sole source of social fulfillment (or in the > case of metrosexuals yourself). As time passes we're gradually eroding > all our other social interactions outside of those that occur with > this monogamous partner if not solely with this partner. Or so it > seems to me... I don't think I'm alone, although I've been told on > more than one occasion that I'm "just whining" about some imaginary > thing I've invented.
Nope. I'm there with you on this one. I'm not looking for someone to be my end-all-be-all-answer-to-everything. I'm looking for someone who fills some of the places not filled by my sisters, parents, friends, etc. The best relationship I ever had included her going out with the girls regularly, and me geeking out with the boys. :-) --Ben ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Find out how CFTicket can increase your company's customer support efficiency by 100% http://www.houseoffusion.com/banners/view.cfm?bannerid=49 Message: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=i:5:167048 Archives: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/threads.cfm/5 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/lists.cfm/link=s:5 Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=89.70.5 Donations & Support: http://www.houseoffusion.com/tiny.cfm/54
