well i could use the term "alleged" On 9/23/05, Loathe <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Isn't that defamation of character, without a conviction for the crime? > > Derek Vinyard wrote: > > Legend: > > > > SO : my girlfriend > > FT : female thief > > SFT : sister of female thief works with SO > > MT : female thief's husband > > > > > > ok so my SO works with SFT. FT babysits for SFT. SFT is going on > > vacation and SFT is in need of money and obviously won't > > be able to babysit for SFT. SFT asked SO if FT could clean SO's house > > (FT has done it once in the past). SO had 600 bucks in a > > bedside table that was to be paid at the end of the day to landscapers > > that were working on the house. SO also had 4,800 in a > > small bag hidden in the closet. this was to go towards a kitchen > > remodelling we are to start this weekend. FT and her husband > > (who we did not know would be assisting) were cleaning the house. SO > > had to go home at noon to pay a stump removal guy. FT saw > > SO coming out of the closet with money in hand. ------> Fast Forward > > ------> SO comes home and goes to get 600 to pay landscaper. > > it's gone. goes in closet... gone. we call the police. and then i > > called FT and asked her where the bag (that held the money) was. > > of course she denies taking the money. i end up talking to MT and he > > tells me i should check out the "mudrats" that were out > > working in the yard. i told him, no way they were in the house, as our > > whole yard is dirt/mud there would be some evidence of them. > > him and his wife were the /only/ ones in our house. and besides how > > would they know to go up in the closet...?? i told him we know they > > are in need of money..etc etc.. (i won't repeat /exactly/ what i told > > him) he did tell me i "didn't know who i was talking to" i told > > i wasn't too worried about that.. (he just had back surgery..) told > > him i would just kick him in the spine :) anyway.. MT says they don't > > need money... they have a (get this...) $9,000 car.. "what type of car > > do i have" well this pretty much floored me.. i was like.. WTF.. > > anyway... police report is filed. claim has been filed with insurance > > company.. i asked the cop the speed of the process.. he said a > > detective > > will be looking into it.. it was a felony.. etc.. but it's cash. and i > > really doubt we will get (any of) it back... > > > > me.. i'm a vengeful sonofabitch. screw with me, i'll go after you > > /and/ your whole family. i don't care, i don't have morals when it > > comes to > > things i deem "an eye for an eye" but i'll wait. i will wait my sweet > > time. things will happen.. and they won't even realize it.. anyway.. > > my question is.... > > > > can i pass out flyers in their neighborhood talking about their > > "alleged" involvement in the crime? or would that be considered > > defamation > > of character.. which is what i want to do... i just want to do it the > > right way. for now.. > > > > > >
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