On 3/16/07, Bruce S wrote: > Well today sucks. I thought that going to Iraq and leaving my family behind > two time was tough, but no way. My wife and I separated today and her and my
Man, that's rough. My folks got divorced, and it was the best thing that happened to their relationship. They're freaks tho. All chummy and pretty much sorta married still. Just with space. Which is really waht they needed ( Perhaps :-). Not physically, per-se, but emotionally, and [optionally] immediate surroundings-wise. It's rough when you don't have a support network... I assume that's why she's going "back"? Mostly "your" fams out where you're at now? Be empathetic, or whatnot, but don't lose yourself. You won't make the kiddo happy if you ain't happy, no matter what you do. Shit. I don't know the "right" Answer, but I know the answer, and it's gonna be ok. And that's the answer. Things happen because it's well and good for them to do so. All Part of The Plan, if you subscribe. Or even if you don't, which probably makes me some kind of ass hole, (I was thinking about this), as who am I to say, The Force is the real deal, same thing as buddah, christ, mohamed-- well, the good parts of all religions? All encompassing, whatnot. Looking out for YOU, basically. Part of ME, etc.. Everywhere and every- thing,,, that whole shpiel. Yet still with free will. Eh. Who am I to tell someone else it's "all good". I AM! It's all going to be fine in the end, you watch. (The end may very well be 1000 years after you die, BTW). ;-) Sorry for the rough times man, but you know, builds character, puts hair on yer chest, etc.. You've been through some rough shit already, you can tackle this crap. Wish I had a flash game for ya, those are good mind-taker-off- ers. Hrm... here's a lamer, just in case: http://www.gotorion.com/orion/flashgames/wolf3d.swf ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Create Web Applications With ColdFusion MX7 & Flex 2. Build powerful, scalable RIAs. Free Trial http://www.adobe.com/products/coldfusion/flex2/?sdid=RVJS Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/message.cfm/messageid:230458 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/CF-Community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=11502.10531.5
