Because she is a pitiful codependent freak. ----- Original Message ----- From: "Howard Owens" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Friday, April 05, 2002 9:38 PM Subject: RE: Egypt: Land of the Gods
> Why does she stay with this loser? > > One of the discussions my wife and I have all the time -- cause it drives > her up the wall -- is women who make bad choices in boyfriends/husbands. > She has a couple of friends who have been in one bad relationship after > another. When she tells them they should find a nice stable guy, employed, > a little nerdy, not living the fast life, they say, "Oh, a guy like that > wouldn't be enough of a challenge; he wouldn't be interesting enough." Some > women want it all -- a guy who is wild, carefree, dangerous, but doesn't > sleep around or abuse them or use them. Good luck finding that guy. > > H. > > > -----Original Message----- > From: Beth F [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]] > Sent: Friday, April 05, 2002 1:55 PM > To: CF-Community > Subject: Re: Egypt: Land of the Gods > > > I forgot the kicker- he spends all her money on drugs too > > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Larry C. Lyons" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > To: "CF-Community" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > Sent: Friday, April 05, 2002 11:54 AM > Subject: Re: Egypt: Land of the Gods > > > > Seems to me that friend's husband is thinking he has a pretty good deal, > > she supports him, cleans up after him, etc. It sounds like he has a > servant > > rather than a wife. > > > > larry > > > > > > At 09:46 AM 4/5/02 -0900, you wrote: > > > > Wait a minute. What about when a woman marries a man who tells her > that > > >it is her responsibility to cook, clean, etc.? Isn't her choice to marry > a > > >man like that the same as choosing it herself? Do you take issue with > what > > >she's being told to do or the fact that she's being told to do anything? > > > > > > > > >Well as far as my relationships go, I personally don't think partners > should > > >TELL each other to do anything - they ask. > > > > > >If both the woman and the man feel that its her job to do all the cooking > > >and cleaning then its her choice. > > > > > >But i have a friend who is married to a guy who is jobless. He stays at > home > > >with a four year old but refuses to do any cooking, cleaning or laundry > or > > >shopping.... She asked him to pitch in and he said "What am I, the > maid?" > > > > > >So he feels its her job to do all of the working, cleaning, cooking and > > >laundry because he isnt' the maid (i.e. because he isn't female). Thats > > >bullshit, plain and simple. > > > > > > > > > > ______________________________________________________________________ Your ad could be here. Monies from ads go to support these lists and provide more resources for the community. http://www.fusionauthority.com/ads.cfm Archives: http://www.mail-archive.com/cf-community@houseoffusion.com/ Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/index.cfm?sidebar=lists
