On Thu, Jan 15, 2009 at 7:22 AM, Erika L. Walker <elwal...@ruwebby.com> wrote: > Well that is awesomely fascinating. Truly. I am coming to see you if we ever > find ourselves on that coast. It's suddenly become an item on my bucket > list. Just because I love fascinating people.
That sounds snazzy indeed. We'll take you and charles out to our favorite strip clubs. > Though, what exactly is an ex-ish wife .... A category for which we don't really have good terminology, alas. Jocelyn is a person I am still legally married to because we haven't gotten around to getting a divorce as we've always had other, better uses for the money. But she and I both live with other partners. But we are best friends and she and her partner live 4 houses down and we hang out several times a week and they are integral to our chosen family. So, yeah, ex-ish. Not really ex in the legal sense nor having any of the emotional connotations that normally comes with a term like "ex-wife" but at the same time, not really a person I'm living with every day. Complicated, I know. But it works for us and that's the important bit. Oh, Jocelyn also runs one of the best food blogs in the world: http://www.browniepointsblog.com/ Cheers, Judah ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Adobe® ColdFusion® 8 software 8 is the most important and dramatic release to date Get the Free Trial http://ad.doubleclick.net/clk;207172674;29440083;f Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/message.cfm/messageid:284998 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=11502.10531.5