Sorry this is a little late in the game but here is what I would do. Remove everything from her room except the bed, blankets, and pillows. Take the door to her bedroom off the hinges and place it where she can see it.
Let her earn her items back, including her bedroom door, thru good behavior. When she slips take something back. Duane ----- Original Message ----- From: "Michael Dinowitz" <mdino...@houseoffusion.com> To: "cf-community" <cf-community@houseoffusion.com> Sent: Wednesday, April 29, 2009 9:16 PM Subject: Dealing with disrespectful daughter > > It falls under the heading of "what can I do". I don't spank my kids and > even if I did, you can't spank a girl after a certain age. I can't take > away > privileges because she just laughs it off. Stop her from seeing friends? > She > sees them in school and that's enough for her. She doesn't have a cell > phone, does not have internet access (even when we allowed her on the > computer) and we don't really watch TV (except what I download). > > I need parenting class to learn how to deal with her. No joke here. I just > don't know what to do. > > On Wed, Apr 29, 2009 at 7:25 AM, Erika L. Walker > <elwal...@ruwebby.com>wrote: > >> >> You let her get away with this behavior? >> >> On Wed, Apr 29, 2009 at 3:18 AM, Michael Dinowitz < >> mdino...@houseoffusion.com> wrote: >> >> > But when I get my daughter saying things like >> > "shut your stinking mouth" (among other things), I get really >> > sensitive. >> > >> >> >> > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~| Adobe® ColdFusion® 8 software 8 is the most important and dramatic release to date Get the Free Trial http://ad.doubleclick.net/clk;207172674;29440083;f Archive: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/message.cfm/messageid:296715 Subscription: http://www.houseoffusion.com/groups/cf-community/subscribe.cfm Unsubscribe: http://www.houseoffusion.com/cf_lists/unsubscribe.cfm?user=11502.10531.5
