Stop twisting mine, Maureen, and I'll return the favor...

On 9/10/2014 4:54 PM, Maureen wrote:
> Rick, you are twisting my words completely.  I have never stated that
> a woman cannot be at fault for physically assaulting a man.  In fact,
> I have worked with men who are abused.
>
> What I said was it is never acceptable for a man to hit a woman in the
> face with his fist - that is abuse, pure and simple.  It would also be
> abuse if a woman hit a man in the face with her fist, especially if
> the man was substantially smaller than the woman.
>
> But you go right ahead with your distortions and insults.  I'm not the
> only one reading it and you are digging a deep hole for yourself.
>
> On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 4:40 PM, Rick Faircloth
> <r...@whitestonemedia.com> wrote:
>> I would never strike a woman first, Maureen. (Unless in a war)
>>
>> But if you decided you wanted to attack me physically, and were a
>> potential threat,
>> you'd get what you asked for. But I understand that, in your view, a
>> woman can
>> never be at fault for physically assaulting a man. I guess men are just
>> supposed to
>> women's punching bags (or knife targets, gun targets) and be "man enough" to
>> just take the abuse.
>>
>> In all circumstances, women are victims because they are, well, women.
>>
>>
>> On 9/10/2014 4:34 PM, Maureen wrote:
>>> If we block and ignore him, that gives him free reign to spread his
>>> toxic opinions unchecked.  On most issues, that would not likely be
>>> harmful  On this one, the truth needs to be told.  If, as his postings
>>> indicate, he is okay with abuse and has admitted he would strike a
>>> woman who confronted him, the community needs to know it.  I would not
>>> want him near me - as a co-worker or at a convention - so knowing his
>>> issues and stance helps me protect myself from any potential contact.
>>>
>>> On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 4:27 PM, Dana <dana.tier...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>>> oh wait are you fucking kidding me? Judith? Character assassination?
>>>>
>>>> .... pause...
>>>>
>>>> I am already filtering him. I just realized that. I see him because people
>>>> are responding to him.
>>>>
>>>> I propose group block and ignore.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>> On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 1:15 PM, Scott Stroz <boyz...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>> Rick,
>>>>>
>>>>> It is impossible for anyone to perform a character assassination on you.
>>>>> You cannot assassinate something does does not exist.
>>>>>
>>>>> On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 4:11 PM, Rick Faircloth <r...@whitestonemedia.com>
>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>> I'm not inclined to accept character assassination from anyone, male or
>>>>>> female.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> If she doesn't like conflict, she shouldn't start one.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>> On 9/10/2014 4:05 PM, Scott Stewart wrote:
>>>>>>> Why did you need to respond,  there's this thing called "picking your
>>>>>>> battles".  But you don't understand the concept of adequate response,
>>>>>> how
>>>>>>> could you understand this..
>>>>>>> On Sep 10, 2014 3:58 PM, "Rick Faircloth" <r...@whitestonemedia.com>
>>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>>> And Maureen is just being a liar, stating that I "insist that the
>>>>> fault
>>>>>>>> is always
>>>>>>>> with the victim." I don't like my words being twisted by someone who
>>>>>> can't
>>>>>>>> understand them. And I was trying to "gently" rebuff her false
>>>>>> accusation.
>>>>>>>> She threw the first punch. I responded. Who was the first victim?
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> Oh, but Maureen gets a pass for her abusive tone because she's a
>>>>> woman.
>>>>>>>> Did Maureen provoke my response in any way, Scott, you asshole. ;o)
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>> On 9/10/2014 3:51 PM, Scott Stewart wrote:
>>>>>>>>> Now you're just being a dick..
>>>>>>>>> On Sep 10, 2014 3:49 PM, "Rick Faircloth" <r...@whitestonemedia.com>
>>>>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>> "But people like Rick continue to insist that the fault is always
>>>>> with
>>>>>>>>>> the victim."
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> Slow down, take a deep breath, and try to think clearly, Maureen.
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>> On 9/10/2014 1:39 PM, Maureen wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>> There are millions of people living in abusive relationships.
>>>>> Mostly
>>>>>>>>>>> they consist of women who are too cowed or dependent to leave, and
>>>>>>>>>>> men who aren't quite violent enough to kill them.   One in three
>>>>>>>>>>> homicides of women is related to domestic violence. Twenty-five
>>>>>>>>>>> percent of the homeless families are related to domestic violence.
>>>>>>>>>>> Most domestic violence incidents are not reported.
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> But people like Rick continue to insist that the fault is always
>>>>> with
>>>>>>>>>>> the victim.
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>> On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 12:54 PM, GMoney <gm0n3...@gmail.com>
>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>>> Meh, abusive relationships can last......they just really suck for
>>>>>>>>>> everyone
>>>>>>>>>>>> involved.
>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>> On Wed, Sep 10, 2014 at 11:30 AM, Vivec <gel21...@gmail.com>
>>>>> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Talk to men who have some spanish wives and they may disagree.
>>>>>>>>>>>>> Plates tend to fly.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>> On 10 September 2014 12:27, GMoney <gm0n3...@gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Very rarely do relationships last or improve once abuse has
>>>>>> entered
>>>>>>>>>> the
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> picture. Arguments and disagreements happen. THey can be heated,
>>>>>>>> they
>>>>>>>>>> can
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> be loud. Things can be said that are hurtful and regretful.
>>>>> These
>>>>>>>>>> things
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> happen in relationships and can be mended.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>> But when it escalates to abuse......there's usually no going
>>>>> back.
>>
> 

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