I know what you are going through, I went through it 2 years in a row with a mother & daughter Lacy and Lucy 2009 I put Lacy down or the vet did, in 2010 a year later I had tohave Lacy's daughter Lucy put down, it was only because they were suffering so bad and were just miserable. Lacy was 16 and Lucy was 15. the only consolation was Lacy and Lucy were together again I buried Lucy right beside her Mama. I have one left Jane-Jane who will be 18 in April , Jane-Jane was Lacy's first born. she's skinny and sleeps a lot and is a finicky eater. anyway I'm sorry for what you are going through. Robert --- On Fri, 2/3/12, C.M. <[email protected]> wrote:
From: C.M. <[email protected]> Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas] My dog is dying MARK To: "[email protected]" <[email protected]> Date: Friday, February 3, 2012, 10:07 PM Cool message. I really appreciate your insight and advice. I also think it's awesome your pets "feel something". Since I lost my son a few months ago, I know that that is possible. I'll keep Koby nearby when Joe is gone. Thanks again, Carolyn From: Mark Strassler <[email protected]> To: "[email protected]" <[email protected]> Sent: Friday, February 3, 2012 7:31 PM Subject: Re: [Chihuahuas] My dog is dying THANK YOU ALL Hello: Will Koby grieve, yes, Koby will walk around looking for Joe for a few days. I've seen this too often with pets. When my Choxi passed, Timmi the Chi we adopted at the same time looked for her everyday for a few days in her crate but he did know she was gone, but kept looking for her. I am a very true believer that Choix spirit is around at times. I also believe I have a few other pets spirits around but I am not sure what ones. I know my Chi we call Mocha will not get on the couch at times until I go over and " clear " a path to the empty pillow. I think it is one of the cats I use to have. When we first got Choxi and Timmi, in the middle of the night on the second night we had them, they both jumped up from the bed and started barking at the dresser or door, both were looking at the same spot. Something was there, I just do not know what was there. Keep Joe close for now, hug him lots for all of us. mark From: C.M. <[email protected]> To: "[email protected]" <[email protected]> Sent: Friday, February 3, 2012 6:22 PM Subject: [Chihuahuas] My dog is dying THANK YOU ALL Hi, Thank you so much for all your advice, kind thoughts and most of all - for your caring. I called the vet and he told me how much it would cost and what the procedure would be for sending Joe to cross over the Rainbow. The vet couldn't give me a time frame as to how long Joe will be with me; but as many of you said, I'll know when it's time. But darn it, that's so very hard. They told me the signs to watch for are whining/crying, lack of eating and drinking, him lying in a different position (to protect his painful parts) and staying as close to me as possible. Joe is doing all that except the crying and positioning himself; although he is coughing/gagging more and has a lot of stinky gas. ??? Right now he's beside me on the couch. I'm sorry if my email is bringing up sad memories for you; please know that I really appreciate your help. Another question I'm going to have is will his pal Koby, grieve? I've had Koby for only 10 months, but they're fast friends. I'm not worried about my newest foster Emma Rose - she and Joe avoid each other and she's been here only 2 months. These two are chis. Thank you all again, Carolyn Joe, Koby and Emma Rose From: C.M. <[email protected]> To: "[email protected]" <[email protected]> Sent: Wednesday, February 1, 2012 10:29 PM Subject: [Chihuahuas] My dog is dying Hi friends, My dog, Joe (some of you "oldies" know him) is dying. Two weeks ago, the vet gave me the "news". My Joe is almost blind, can't hear and has tumors/lumps all throughout his body. He's only 12 years old - He's a 26 pound corgie/staffie/doxie black and white beautiful dog. So sorry you guys, I'm crying. But, no amount of money will fix Joe. I think he's getting worse quickly - more difficulty breathing, more coughing/choking; limping even more, not eating. What's strange is that he's become a "velcro" dog. Now, he just wants to be near me - which breaks my heart. Is he trying to say goodbye? Is he trying to say he hurts? When the time comes-which sounds soon, what do I do? Do I take him to his vet? Then what do I do with my Joe's body? You all have unfortunately, been through this, but I haven't and I don't know what to do. Can you please help me? Thank you, Carolyn Joe, Koby, Penny
