According to the article the prosecutor went this route because there are no
cyber-bullying laws.  Perhaps there should be, but to turn any sort of
violations of website terms of service agreements into crimes is a) not the
way to deal with this particularly heinous and hopefully unusual situation
and b)  can, as has been said, lead to all sorts of unintended, adverse
consequences.

The problem is that we, as individuals, society and government, are rather
poor at making proper, necessary distinctions between phenomena.  This
largely explains why we do not value and do not practice critical thinking
very much.  Hence the likelihood to treat a wide range of what are really
very dissimilar things the same by a broad law, rule, policy, etc.  Lying
about one's age, looks, etc. in the typical online dating thing is not the
same thing as whatever lying this reprehensible woman engaged in to torment
that girl.

Moreover, truth and its pursuit is not valued much (and we aren't even
honest about this, even with ourselves) and exaggerating and lying is
widespread.  So if we are going to criminalize such behavior online, why not
in the real world?  And what would constitute a lie?  If you say you are
"average build" but are 15 lbs overweight by some criteria, is that a
punishable lie?  What if you countered that by a different criteria - say, a
body mass rating - it was perfectly true?  What if you said you were
"smart," "rich" or "pretty?" What criteria would be used to determine if you
were being misleading?

As for dating, deception is a regular part of dating and the mating ritual.
So why single out online dating or socializing for criminalization and
punishment?

Randall


On Mon, Dec 1, 2008 at 10:16 PM, Steve Rigby <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

> On Dec 1, 2008, at 8:50 PM, Rev. Stewart Marshall wrote:
>
>  That is what this whole trial was about.  I think they could care less if
>> someone wanted to make themselves look better to someone else.  But if
>> someone wanted to use Myspace to harass and injure someone else, it should
>> be a crime.
>>
>
>  Beware of unintended consequences.  Big and sensational events are often
> the catalyst for bad decisions, bad law and/or legal precedent being set.
>
>  To wit, September 11, 2001 as a prime example of note.
>
>  Steve
>
>
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