I was curious about John's "The shoulder-blade connection is purely to
counteract centrifugal force.  That is not normally a lot of force, so it
shouldn’t make you tired." above.  While ideally you could measure this, I
don't think swinging with a scale between your hand and partner's back and
your hand would be comfortable, and it would be hard to read.  Let's try a
bit of physics.

If you like to swing quickly you might go 4.5x around in twelve beats,
which is 45rpm at a tempo of 120bpm. Let's guess the people each weigh
150lb and approximate them as point masses two feet apart. Doing some math:

r = 1ft
m = 300lb
ω = 45rpm = 0.75 hz

v = ω2πr
  = 0.75 hz * 2π * 1ft
  = 4.7 ft/s

F = mv^2/r
  = 300lbm * (4.7 ft/s)^2 / 1ft
  = 300lbm * 23ft / s^2
  = 6662lbm * ft / s^2

1lbf = 32.17 lbm * ft / s^2
1lbm = 0.0311 lbf * s^2 / ft

F = 6662 lbm * ft / s^2
  = 6662 * 0.0311 lbf
  = 207lbf

This says you need ~216lb of force to hold the dancers together! If you're
rotating more slowly, perhaps 2.5x in twelve beats, it's still a
significant 64lb.

Jeff

PS: If you want something you can play with, this is (rpm/3 * 3.14)**2 *
weight * 1/32.2

On Tue, Mar 26, 2024 at 11:08 PM Jeff Kaufman <jeff.t.kauf...@gmail.com>
wrote:

> Here's a 1989 recording the Portland OR dance did in a recording studio:
> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4o_qLQUH-7k .  I see almost all "outer
> arms making a point, gent's right hand behind lady's back, lady's left hand
> behind gent's shoulder" hold (hereafter 'ballroom' though as illustrated
> above that's a fraught term).  At 0:58 and then again at 1:28, 1:58, 3:02
> etc there's a couple with a symmetrical hold where they each have their
> right hand around the other's waist, with their left hands joined low in
> the center.  I didn't watch the whole video, so it's possible there were
> other couples that did other holds at some point?
>
> Here's 1987 in Mendocino: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pTOKMwrl-7Q .
> I only see ballroom holds.
>
> Here's 1986 in Cambridge MA: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n2-pBs9BY3Q
> . Outdoor demo performance.  Almost all ballroom holds, but at 4:04 the
> couple all the way on the right has outer hands in a forearm hold (which
> they continue doing in later iterations of the dance).
>
> Here's 1986 in Francestown NH: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O09f-3yGMuE
> At 0:30 I see two ballroom holds and two where the outer arms are holding a
> bit above the elbows.  At 1:06 I see two ballroom holds, one of the hold
> from 0:30, and one of the symmetrical holds I described in the Portland OR
> video, though note that this is many of the same couples.  Jumping ahead to
> 8:38 I see three ballroom holds and where the outer hands hold each other's
> forearms. Separately, I really like how enthusiastic the balances are: you
> can feel the room shake through to the camera!
>
> Here's one labeled 1986 Chico Contra:
> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UCYAyEj6jWg  Almost all ballroom holds,
> except for one couple where the lady's left hand is on the back of the
> gent's right arm instead of behind his shoulder (doesn't look comfortable
> to me!)
>
> Here's 1976 in Bloomington: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_n2A3955G2w
> .  Looks like a performance.  At 0:10 I see three couples where the outer
> hands are joined as in ballroom, the gent's right hand is around the lady's
> waist, and the lady's left hand is again on the back of the gent's right
> arm.  Then there's one couple doing the symmetrical swing with left hands
> joined low between their bodies. Same again at 0:44, 1:11, etc.
>
> Here's 1967 somewhere in New England:
> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q6E1AtqyvFM .  I see ballroom at 0:35,
> 0:37, 3:15, 3:16, 5:08, 5:10.  Then at 1:05 (and then again in the
> background at 5:11, and then again at 5:23 and 5:33) I see a forearm hold
> with arms that are straighter than I'm used to.  At 2:08 I see a hold where
> the gents hands are both around the lady's waist and the lady's hands are
> both over the tops of the gent's shoulders.
>
> Here's 1981 in Belmont MA, but it's an hour and I'm going to bed:
> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fdTVkWcehZo
>
> Jeff
>
> On Tue, Mar 26, 2024 at 4:33 PM Stein, Robert <ste...@msu.edu> wrote:
>
>> The 1964 film with Dudley Kaufman calling also shows the same variety of
>> swinging styles from ballroom to various barrel holds.
>> Bob
>>
>> > On Mar 26, 2024, at 16:13, Jeff Kaufman via Contra Callers <
>> contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>> >
>> > Looking through old media to figure out what swing positions were
>> common sounds like fun!  I think video might be more promising?  Here's a
>> few annotations of a video, where the numbers are timestamps and each
>> bullet describes the couple that's in the middle of the frame at the
>> timestamp.  I only counted each couple once:
>> >
>> > Cambridge MA, 1990: https://youtu.be/dC0qQYWjdh0?si=JWkNH0g93yo6VWrC
>> > * 3:41: lady's hands behind gent's arms, gent's right hand behind
>> lady's back, gent's left hand behind lady's arm
>> > * 4:12: outer arms making a point, gent's right hand behind lady's
>> back, lady's left hand behind gent's shoulder
>> > * 4:14: outer arms making a point, lady's left hand on gent's shoulder,
>> gent's right hand on lady's back
>> > * 4:44: outer arms making a point held way out, lady's left hand behind
>> gent's shoulder, gent's right hand on lady's back
>> > * 5:16: outer arms overlapping, inner hands on backs with lady above
>> gent
>> > * 5:17: outer arms making a point held low, gent's inner hand on lady's
>> back, lady's inner hand behind gent's shoulder
>> > * 5:18: outer arms making a point and held out, gent's inner hand on
>> lady's back, lady's inner hand behind gent's arm
>> > * 5:48: both lady's hands behind gent's shoulders, gent's left hand
>> behind lady's elbow, gent's right hand behind lady's back
>> > * 5:49: outer arms making a point, gent's right hand behind lady's
>> back, lady's left hand behind gent's shoulder
>> > * 5:50: outer arms making a point, gent's right hand behind lady's
>> back, lady's left hand behind gent's shoulder
>> >
>> > The "outer arms making a point, gent's right hand behind lady's back,
>> lady's left hand behind gent's shoulder" hold, which I think of as the
>> standard today, was about half of them, but there was quite a lot of
>> variation.
>> >
>> > I tried to do this with a Fitzwilliam 1975 clip, but there were too
>> many cuts.  The 1964 video would be another one to try?
>> >
>> > Jeff
>> >
>> > On Tue, Mar 26, 2024 at 3:33 PM Julian Blechner via Contra Callers <
>> contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>> > Responding to various points.
>> > And, obligatory acknowledgement that there's always regional
>> differences (and, perhaps ultimately that is what this thread is really
>> about?)
>> > I beg you forgive me for directness, and please assume a friendly tone
>> and desire for friendly discussion, as that's what's intended.
>> >
>> > I just thumbed through two big choreo milestone books marking
>> approximately the beginning of the less-1s&2s age of contra - Balance and
>> Swing, and Zesty Contras - and absolutely Ted Sanella and Larry Jennings.
>> > The short version: despite being contemporaries and the books published
>> a year apart (1982 and 1983), they describe slightly different swing holds,
>> where:
>> > - a gent's right hand is either on the waist on the small of the back
>> (Sanella) or a little higher (Jennings, via the illustration on the cover
>> which he points out in the description is what to follow)
>> > - a gent's left hand is either a typical ballroom palm-up supporting
>> the lady's right hand (Sanella) or behind the lady's right upper arm
>> (Jennings, with Sanella noting the variation as well) - with a lady's hands
>> > - a lady's left hand is resting on the top of the upper arm (Jennings)
>> or "behind the upper arm" (Sanella)
>> >
>> > So even in 1982/1983, there was no agreed traditional swing position,
>> and holds described by both did include women holding men in ways that were
>> supporting from behind rather than everyone agreeing that their hand is
>> "resting on top" as with other couples' dances.
>> > Obviously dance evolves over time, and I'll circle back around to that
>> after I touch on some specific points:
>> >
>> > RE: Joe: "They lean back or sideways or press back against the Leftie’s
>> supporting right hand."
>> > Agree, these are bad habits. The "leaning back" may be describing "the
>> feeling of centripetal force", but also I have definitely experienced
>> people who lean back.
>> >
>> > RE: Neal: "both-palms-flat swing  ...  forces the swing together
>> because you are limited to the length of the shorter arm."
>> > I don't think this is accurate.
>> > This was covered elsewhere in the thread. The shoulderblade isn't
>> small, and adjustments can be made to adjust for height or size
>> differences. There's always exceptions, sure.
>> > Certainly, when I swing young kids, we're not doing shoulderblades.
>> Then again, they have a lot less mass than an adult, so there's less
>> support that's needed to be given.
>> >
>> > RE: Neal: " putting your palm in the middle of my back means you’re
>> going to be on top of me."
>> > I agree, however, a good flat-palms swing hold is not in the "middle"
>> of the back. There's a gap between shoulderblades, so a hand in the middle
>> is partially off the shoulderblade.
>> > I like how Lisa Greenleaf describes it as the curve of the hand often
>> can naturally curve around the shoulderblade.
>> >
>> > RE: Neal: " if partners are the same height/arm length then the arms
>> are coming in at the same point and going to the same point, resulting in
>> collision. SOMEONE has to adjust up or down AND forward."
>> > I mean, I suppose, technically speaking? But I think everyone on this
>> list here has been dancing for years, and "elbow collisions" isn't a thing
>> I've really experienced or heard discussed.
>> > So, I conclude that this may in theory be possible, but people just ...
>> do it?
>> > As a lark/lefthand role, my right arm comes into a swing from a bit of
>> an under-scooping motion. As a robin/righthand role, my left arm comes in
>> more open and I wait half a moment to let the lark engage their right arm
>> before I try and wrap my right arm around.
>> > It's similar-ish to the anticipation leading into a good connection on
>> a star promenade.
>> >
>> > Further to this point, if I were using the traditional "woman left arm
>> rests on top", I'd have to wait until the lark's arm has engaged, anyway.
>> > Which means that traditionally, women have done that extra bit of work
>> in the dance of that waiting, reading the other dancer's movement, and
>> timing their own move --- and I wonder how much of that had gone unnoticed.
>> >
>> > This all said, the explanation that you give, Neal, may not work as
>> wellwhen it's not taller men dancing with shorter women.
>> > Some women are tall and dance the Robin/Righthand role.
>> > Some men are tall and dance the Robin/Righthand role.
>> > Some women are shorter and dance the Lark/Lefthand role.
>> > Some men are shorter and dance the Lark/Lefthand role.
>> > Some men dance with men, some women with women.
>> > Etc.
>> >
>> > So dancing requires a need to adjust our arms to "make a swing work for
>> both people" as a universal and generic skill.
>> > Thankfully, I think it's one that's actually more automatic than it may
>> seem!
>> >
>> > Regardless of how we discuss the technical and kinesthetic aspects of
>> contra, I teach (and I think most callers teach) that dancers need to
>> adjust themselves to every partner and neighbor, and find a happy medium
>> that works for both people.
>> > If someone doesn't want to put their hand flat on my shoulderblade,
>> that's fine and I'll adjust by limiting my upper-end swing speed.
>> > I think we all share the value that a skilled contra dancer can adjust
>> their style to meet another dancer's differences in size, height, ability,
>> tiredness, injury, age, etc.
>> >
>> > In dance,
>> > Julian Blechner
>> >
>> >
>> > On Tue, Mar 26, 2024 at 11:28 AM Neal Schlein <nschl...@gmail.com>
>> wrote:
>> > Hi Julian,
>> > Regarding both dancers trying to put their palm flat on the other
>> persons back, I agree with Joe.
>> >
>> > The both-palms-flat swing does multiple things.
>> >
>> > First, it forces the swing together because you are limited to the
>> length of the shorter arm. I’m six feet tall with broad shoulders and long
>> arms—putting your palm in the middle of my back means you’re going to be on
>> top of me. I don’t care who I’m dancing with—I want space, and I’m not OK
>> with that.  With a standard hold, I can give partners lots of space.
>>  (Also, I sweat from the head a lot. You want that space, and no one wants
>> their hand on my back.)
>> >
>> > Second, if partners are the same height/arm length then the arms are
>> coming in at the same point and going to the same point, resulting in
>> collision. SOMEONE has to adjust up or down AND forward. This means a
>> changed angle for one person, and due to the change in angle a shortening
>> of the hold to match the arm that adjusted (usually on top), thereby
>> pulling the swing closer together than otherwise necessary…which also puts
>> the other person’s arm (typically lark, and also typically longer) in a
>> non-natural position, which is likely to be physically uncomfortable and
>> potentially harmful.
>> >
>> > Neal Schlein
>> > Librarian, MSLIS
>> >
>> >
>> > On Sun, Mar 24, 2024 at 1:24 PM Julian Blechner via Contra Callers <
>> contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>> > Hi Joe,
>> >
>> > You mean, palms flat on the back of shoulderblades? If so, it's how I
>> teach it, lots of callers teach it, and this is the first I've heard a
>> complaint about it.
>> >
>> > That said, you describe: "I've had my elbow bent backward by eager
>> robins pressing my elbow in to get their elbow in the right place."
>> >
>> > That _sounds like_ what I call "arm clamping". While yes, putting
>> Robin's hand on the outside of the shoulder also alleviates the clamping,
>> it's not the only way to fix it. A Robin can lift their elbow. (I just
>> workshopped the issue with my partner in the living room to test a variety
>> of height and holds out to confirm what you were saying, as well.)
>> >
>> > The other issue is that if both dancers don't have hands flat on the
>> backs of each other, it's more difficult to maintain an open frame when
>> swinging. One usually winds up _closer_ when hands are resting on
>> shoulders, unless one dancer is significantly stronger and the other is
>> fairly petite.
>> >
>> > I know that my right arm will get seriously fatigued and sore if I have
>> an evening too many times as Lark with Robins providing insufficient
>> support. And I've heard plenty of dancers say similar.
>> >
>> > That said, all bodies are different. If yours works where the swing
>> hold works better for you the way you describe, that is what it is, yeah?
>> But I might recommend considering workshopping swings further, because what
>> you're requesting is counter to prevailing teaching. If I understand
>> correctly (and it's always possible I'm missing something.)
>> >
>> > In dance,
>> > Julian Blechner
>> >
>> >
>> > On Sun, Mar 24, 2024, 1:13 PM Joe Harrington <contradancer...@gmail.com>
>> wrote:
>> > Not the standard ballroom, with the robin's arm on top of the lark's,
>> but an alternative that I've seen occasionally, but for a number of years
>> now, where the robin tries to put their left hand in the same location on
>> the lark's back as the lark has their right hand on the robin's back.  I
>> know at least one prominent caller who teaches this hold in their newbie
>> workshop and tells their dancers that both sides need to do this to provide
>> equal support in the swing.
>> >
>> > While I like the principle, the practice can hurt. If the dancers are
>> not grossly mismatched in size/arm length, it won't be possible to do this
>> without their elbows occupying the same space.  I've had my elbow bent
>> backward by eager robins pressing my elbow in to get their elbow in the
>> right place.  Even if it doesn't go all the way to pain, it pretty much
>> eliminates my ability to provide any support, unless I "fight back" by
>> pushing my elbow out and resisting the inward pressure, essentially
>> refusing the position.  I'm also focusing entirely on protecting my elbow,
>> so it kills any enjoyment in that swing.
>> >
>> > Please gently discourage this hold.  If a robin wants to give major
>> support in a swing, the symmetric swing holds, the barrel, the one Jeff
>> described, or even a mirror of the ballroom where the lark's arm is on top
>> are much better opportunities.  A robin whose arm is longer than their
>> lark's arm can also reach over or around the shoulder in a ballroom hold
>> (robin's arm on top) to add support.  Just don't push down on the shoulder.
>> >
>> > --jh--
>> >
>> >
>> > On Fri, Mar 22, 2024 at 9:21 AM Julian Blechner <
>> juliancallsdan...@gmail.com> wrote:
>> > JJ,
>> >
>> > I like your point about the sort of code-switching that the asymmetry
>> of a ballroom hold provides to reinforce what role one is dancing.
>> >
>> > Joe,
>> >
>> > I don't understand what you mean about the ballroom hold having elbows
>> occupy the same space. I think I'd need to see it (in person or picture).
>> That said, it raises the broader issue, which is the overall topic, that
>> everyone has different physical needs and finding happy mediums is our goal
>> for everyone dancing together. Your issue with ballroom hold handholds as
>> such is a good reminder for me that no one - not even seasoned callers -
>> can anticipate every need or difference.
>> >
>> > In dance,
>> > Julian Blechner
>> >
>> > On Thu, Mar 21, 2024, 10:38 PM JJ <jcg...@gmail.com> wrote:
>> > Personally for me, the standard ballroom swing helps me to "flip the
>> switch" in the brain on which side of the swing I'm "supposed to" end on
>> (assuming we're not switching roles back and forth for fun lol). If my left
>> arm is the "pointy arm," I'm ending on the left; if my right arm is the
>> "pointy arm," I'm ending on the right. I don't have to consciously tell
>> myself "I'm the Lark" or "I'm the Robin," my muscle memory just takes over
>> and I just end on whichever side my arm position tells me to 😅.
>> >
>> > I enjoy neutral swings, but if we're not planning on switching roles
>> without warning through an individual dance, I tend to stick with the
>> traditional ballroom figure.
>> >
>> > On Thu, Mar 21, 2024, 22:33 Jeff Kaufman via Contra Callers <
>> contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>> > "At the time, it almost never happened that the one in the lady's role
>> actually swung like a lady.  I'm not sure when that became the norm."
>> >
>> > When I started dancing both roles, around 2005, I remember initially
>> doing it as you said, with gender-neutral swings with the gents I
>> encountered.  I remember being surprised sometime around 2006-2007 when I
>> ran into a few guys dancing switch who indicated they wanted to do the
>> standard ballroom hold.  By 2008-2009 I think my male friends and I were
>> dancing the lady's role in the standard way?
>> >
>> > Jeff
>> >
>> > On Thu, Mar 21, 2024 at 10:16 PM Joe Harrington via Contra Callers <
>> contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>> > I love the barrel hold, but some of my partners have reacted in a way
>> that indicated it was too intimate for them.  This is especially true if I
>> have to lean over to do it, as that puts my face pretty close to theirs
>> (I'm pretty tall).  It's also difficult to do without frontal contact if
>> one or both partners is well on the heavy side.  But, all that aside, if
>> you and your partner like fast swings, it's a great hold, more stable than
>> ballroom, with four arms providing support rather than one.
>> >
>> > In the late 1980s and early 1990s, when guys danced the lady's role
>> (using the terminology of the time for reasons you'll see in a moment),
>> we'd almost universally be offered the "gender-neutral swing", which is
>> symmetrical and very stable for fast swinging: both right arms are around
>> the other's back and both left arms go over/around the other's right arm,
>> bend 90 degrees at the elbow, pass between you, and clasp left hands around
>> each other's forearms between your bodies.  At the time, it almost never
>> happened that the one in the lady's role actually swung like a lady.  I'm
>> not sure when that became the norm.  I would occasionally do it with a
>> particular guy partner whom I liked to dance with.  We practiced it first
>> and then did it with each other, but we gender-neutral-swung our
>> neighbors.  We got some pretty surprised looks from our neighbors when we
>> swung each other. At least one guy asked me if that partner and I were an
>> item.  Times and role terms and what people read into dance behavior
>> change...
>> >
>> > In general, I'm quite happy to swing with guys in either role when
>> they're happy to swing with me.  But, it's awkward and uncomfortable in the
>> extreme to be going up an entire line of consecutive frowns, growls, and
>> looks of disgust as a guy dancing the robbin...enough that I haven't
>> returned to the dance weekend where that happened in Fall 2022, even though
>> it was pretty great in other ways.
>> >
>> > The one swing style I really dislike is a modified ballroom position
>> where the robbin tries to put their hand on the lark's back in the same
>> place where the lark's hand is on theirs.  I know some people actually
>> teach it this way, I guess as some kind of equality thing.  It's terrible,
>> because their elbow and the lark's elbow then have to occupy the same
>> space, which, well, physics.  If I'm the lark and their arm is outside
>> mine, when they try to provide support, it hyperextends my right elbow,
>> eliminating any chance I can provide support and sometimes inducing pain
>> before I can either force my elbow back out, displacing their hand from my
>> back, or pull my arm up to rest it on their arm in a mirror of the
>> traditional ballroom hold.  I hope we can convince everyone to stop
>> teaching this hold, as it usually doesn't work as intended and it can hurt
>> the lark.
>> >
>> > One assist that does work in ballroom position and requires no
>> communication is, if the robbin's arm is as long as or longer than the
>> lark's, they rest their left arm on the lark's right, extending the entire
>> length of the arm and then reaching around/over the lark's shoulder to
>> provide some support on the shoulder blade.  In my case, at least, if they
>> are short enough that they can't do this, then they're often also light
>> enough that additional support isn't critical, though it does make for more
>> connection.  It's important not to press down on the shoulder, though. Only
>> pull forward.
>> >
>> > --jh--
>> >
>> >
>> > On Thu, Mar 21, 2024 at 12:52 PM Julian Blechner via Contra Callers <
>> contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>> > At the last couple of dances in the last few days, I thought about this
>> email thread and observations.
>> >
>> > Short and simple:
>> > A "barrel hold" swing:
>> > - Seemed to provide a little bit more space than a ballroom hold
>> > - One neighbor offered it (by chance) really clearly, as a lark, with
>> his left arm curved into a sort of "offer a hug" type position. As we
>> engaged in the swing hold, he placed his left arm in place, and it guided
>> things in. It worked pretty well for me, at least as an experienced dancer.
>> >
>> > In dance,
>> > -Julian Blechner
>> >
>> > On Sat, Mar 16, 2024 at 4:18 PM becky.liddle--- via Contra Callers <
>> contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>> > I can’t answer whether the robin's would always HAVE to go above the
>> lark’s in the modified ballroom swing, but I would intuitively think that
>> having that rule/understanding might make it easier for dancers to make the
>> transition from ballroom to modified ballroom because the robin’s arm is
>> always on top in standard ballroom swing. Also, the lark’s hand is
>> typically cupped upwards with the robin’s hand above the lark’s in things
>> like a balance or even a handhold in a circle move, so having the hand/arm
>> orientations the same in the swing would also seem more intuitive to me if
>> I were just learning this swing.
>> > Becky
>> >
>> >> On Mar 16, 2024, at 12:25 PM, Katherine Kitching via Contra Callers <
>> contracallers@lists.sharedweight.net> wrote:
>> >>
>> >> Hi John, thanks for all your comments. I like this swing at
>> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FUiXStkCHGs from 0:05 to 0:15 - for
>> spacing -- and I'm going to introduce it at our next dance!  Though what I
>> think Becky found interesting about the variation we're working on is that
>> it retains the "pointy hands", which can be useful.
>> >>
>> >> The one thing that I was confused about when I read your message:  you
>> say when you tried the swing variation our group has been experimenting
>> with (visual at
>> https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/ebotfe2jksbr3dqbjyiuf/Modified-Ballroom-Swing-elbow-hold.jpg?rlkey=ekblzvpc2tk2hkbtfrh9u96au&dl=0
>> )
>> >> -- you say that you found the grip insufficient, for the arms that are
>> holding just above the elbow.
>> >>
>> >> But in my mind, this hold that me and my partner are doing with his
>> left hand my right hand ,  is supposed to be the same as the hold you use
>> in this video of yours - (but in your case, your left hand and her right
>> hand.)
>> >> Maybe I didn't execute it properly, but it is what I intended:
>> >> https://youtu.be/yUbi1B2Edk0?si=HL-3jgI95LtGZBQ_&t=198
>> >> Starts at 3:18.
>> >> Thoughts?
>> >>
>> >> Also, is anyone able to answer my question to Winston -
>> >>
>> >> Is it a given, due to something in the asymmetric nature of the hold,
>> that in this video referenced by Allan -
>> >> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lQ0R5iHT-l8 or in the photo I shared
>> above via Dropbox, that the Robin's arm will *always* go above the Lark's
>> arm?
>> >>
>> >> Or could the placement of the arms vary depending on the relative
>> height of the two dancing partners?
>> >> (for example with a 6' tall Lark and a 5' tall Robin, would the
>> Robin's arm still be above the Lark's?
>> >>
>> >> Thanks all!
>> >> Kat K in Halifax
>> >>> John Sweeney via Contra Callers
>> >>> Thursday, March 14, 2024 7:23 AM
>> >>> Hi Kat,
>> >>> Yes, I thought you meant something like you show in your photo. When
>> you mentioned Jeff's photo I did wonder, as it is what I call a
>> Foreshortened Hold in my video and brings you closer together rather than
>> further apart.
>> >>>
>> >>> I picked up the Foreshortened Hold from the cover of Zesty Contras
>> and love it. I was surprised when I analysed the 600 dancers at a contra
>> dance at The Flurry and realised that nobody else was using it!
>> >>>
>> >>> We tried your Modified Ballroom Hold Swing and didn't feel that it
>> really worked. With my right arm underneath there didn't seem to be enough
>> connection to have a really good swing unless Karen gripped my arm. I felt
>> that my hand might slide down. With my right arm on top Karen felt that it
>> was pulling on her shoulder even though I wasn't gripping - it was just
>> awkward. So, sorry, but I won't be using that one.
>> >>>
>> >>> Re all the references to sore arms/hands/wrists/etc. The biggest
>> problem is that people are told to "give weight". I don't want your weight!
>> People misunderstand and lean back or sideways. If people control their own
>> weight then all the connection has to do is counter centrifugal force and
>> that it not a lot inless you spin really fast.
>> >>>
>> >>> I always start a Swing lesson by getting the dancers to Buzz on the
>> spot BY THEMSELVES. Then when they connect they keep their own balance and
>> weight.
>> >>>
>> >>> I have had major operations on both my shoulders (too much Repetitive
>> Strain Injury from another style of dance that is taught badly, and then
>> lots of Aerials: https://youtu.be/CJnL_Y63AnY?si=RqKHSw5MQmhiuIFT -
>> maybe I shouldn't have started doing those in my fifties!). Anyway, I can't
>> afford to let people damage my shoulders. With a good partner I can Swing
>> at high speeds with no problem. Whenever someone leans back or sideways I
>> just slow the Swing down and lessen my connection so that they have to take
>> their own weight or fall over.
>> >>>
>> >>> Anyway, if you can get everyone to keep their own weight you will
>> find it is much less strain on your arm/hand/wrist.
>> >>>
>> >>> The standard Quebecois Swing has the feet interleaved. They seem to
>> do it without any problem. It is just a different feel and takes some
>> getting used to.
>> >>>
>> >>> Someone mentioned the challenges with being too close in a Ceilidh
>> Swing (http://contrafusion.co.uk/SwingWorkshop.html#Ceilidh ) - you
>> could always try the Forearm Swing instead (
>> http://contrafusion.co.uk/SwingWorkshop.html#Linked ) - same principle,
>> but further apart so no bodily contact.
>> >>>
>> >>> Happy dancing,
>> >>> John
>> >>>
>> >>> John Sweeney, Dancer, England j...@modernjive.com 01233 625 362 &
>> 07802 940 574
>> >>> http://www.contrafusion.co.uk for Dancing in Kent
>> >>>
>> >>>
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>> >>> becky.liddle--- via Contra Callers
>> >>> Wednesday, March 13, 2024 10:20 PM
>> >>> For me, the enforced intimacy is about the proximity of bodies and
>> lack of physical air space between them. The huge difference between a
>> swing in contra vs., say, agreeing to dance a waltz or a swing dance with
>> someone, is that by agreeing to dance you’re agreeing to swing with EVERY
>> opposite-role person in the line, not just the person you asked to dance.
>> That’s a much bigger commitment to physical contact/intimacy than saying
>> yes to one person.
>> >>>
>> >>> As a side note, before we got rid of a lecherous dancer in our group
>> a few years ago, MANY women in our dance group chose their contra dance
>> line specifically to avoid having to swing with him. The most important
>> intervention was, of course, to establish a code of conduct which we used
>> to remove him from the dance group (when it became clear he would not agree
>> to change his behaviour). But for women (and others, but it’s always been
>> women who have said this to me over the years), when they come to a dance
>> not KNOWING whether there MIGHT be a letch in the line, it is asking quite
>> a lot to expect them to do a ballroom swing with whoever comes at them. I
>> am wondering whether the modified ballroom hold might make contra feel
>> safer, especially for new dancers.
>> >>>
>> >>> I’d love to hear what folks who have used both feel about the
>> difference.
>> >>>
>> >>> Becky
>> >>>
>> >>>
>> >>> On Mar 13, 2024, at 4:34 PM, Julian Blechner <
>> juliancallsdan...@gmail.com> wrote:
>> >>>
>> >>> I would love to read elaboration / articulation on why a ballroom
>> hold feels more "intimate" than other holds?
>> >>>
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>> >>> Wednesday, March 13, 2024 5:34 PM
>> >>> I would love to read elaboration / articulation on why a ballroom
>> hold feels more "intimate" than other holds?
>> >>>
>> >>> Is it a matter of the historical social attachment we have in our
>> minds with couples dances that use the hold, and romance in our culture?
>> >>>
>> >>> Is it a physical proximity? (I find ceilidh holds to be closer,
>> crossed arms has my hands bearish their belly which has its own intimacy to
>> me, though sometimes barrel holds can be done with a bit more space -
>> though I wouldn't say the default)
>> >>>
>> >>> Is it something else?
>> >>>
>> >>> Maybe if we looked at the why, it'd give insight to what a solution
>> to an alternate swing hold and/or an adjusted mindset might entail?
>> >>>
>> >>> In dance,
>> >>> Julian Blechner
>> >>> He/him
>> >>> Western Mass
>> >>>
>> >>>
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