On Mon, Oct 19, 2020 at 11:50:36AM +0000, Long Wind wrote: > > On Sunday, October 18, 2020, 8:12:54 AM EDT, <to...@tuxteam.de> wrote: > In general, this is a good strategy. Still, there are people > around who feel hurt by things and are too shy to speak up; > it's thinking of those that I do sometimes. > > > i'm able to keep quiet, because i remind myself that others' word isn't > necessarily truth. not responding doesn't necessarily mean tacitly admitting > i'm wrong. it's not easy to control one's feeling, but my experience has > taught me that it's often more difficult to change others' behavior.
This is wise. As I said, I totally respect your position. I tried to explain how I try to do things, but I was in no way proposing that you do the same. This would be arrogant :-) > in your word i'm shy, actully i'm in poor health, i have to save energy, > getting angry isn't good to health. Sorry if I came across that way. I wasn't questioning your motives at all: I'm not entitled to that. As to your health, I wish you strength to cope with that. And good friends. Cheers - t
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