--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, scienceofabundance <no_re...@...> wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008 <no_reply@> wrote: > > > > > > Not that there is anything wrong with being gay per se. But some of these > > fellows follow a rather agressive sexual policy. I think many hetero men > > have experienced this, particularily in younger years. Some of these > > characters don't take a no for an answer and you have to take hard action > > to stop their advances. > > > > You must be living in The Gay Kingdom or some other corner of the globe I > > have not heard of. There is _no_ evidence whatsoever that gay men as a > > group are sexually aggressive towards heterosexual men anywhere in the > > world.
[snip] I agree. The times in my life that I have been "hit upon" by gay men -- and it was all very subtle and subjective, I might add -- once I communicated to them I wasn't interested, THEY GOT THE MESSAGE RIGHT AWAY AND ALL FURTHER "HITTING UPON" ME STOPPED IMMEDIATELY. This is the farthest thing from "sexually agressive". Now, that's not to say that is always the case, but that's been my experience. Perhaps I smiled at the gay man in a friendly way that was interpreted as "oh, he's one of us". But I've always found that if they then "come on to you" that all you have to do is look them in the eye and continue to treat them nicely and like human beings that that in itself is a communication to them that you're not gay. That has worked for me every time...AND, I might add, by not being negative to them or unkind you can usually make a friend out of them that you ordinarily wouldn't be able to. But why am I not surprised that Nabby's experience is the exact opposite from mine?
