--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray1" <steve.sundur@...> wrote:
>
> Dan,
> 
> You realize that this is slanderous and cowardly. And although 
> it does not affect me, I would say that it is grounds for 
> suspension from the group. That would be my recommendation.  
> You are, what's called in the trade, a coward, Dan. A coward 
> is someone who resorts to innuendo when they have nothing 
> to back up their accusations.

7ray, I'd say that Dan just "drops right in" 
lately to the general level of obsession and
insanity that Fairfield Life has devolved to.

Fascinating that my done-for-fun satire yesterday
about me and Vaj and Curtis being designated as
Schedule I drugs because people become so obsessed
with us that they literally become addicted to the
obsession was proven so incredibly Right On, eh?

As for "grounds for suspension," quite frankly I
think that you're dreaming. Rick is clearly asleep 
at the wheel, and either doesn't care that the 
forum he created has become a refuge for crazy
people, or he really doesn't get it. 

>From my point of view, he has now allowed at least
three certifiably mentally ill people to post here, 
people who are in desperate need of either therapy or
commitment to a mental institution. Rick doesn't 
seem to even notice. Maybe that has something to
do with the people he interviews as "everyday
enlightened role models." He's lost touch with
reality, as perceived by most of the world.

He also doesn't seem to notice that over the years
the "quirkiness quotient" surrounding TM and the
TMO has grown so huge that these mentally ill people 
are not being recognized as the mentally ill people 
they are. Instead, people who on any other forum 
would instantly recognize them for what they are 
and either compassionately ignore them or actively
encourage them to get help instead *encourage their 
craziness*. 

They *go out of their way* to get these already
mentally ill people to become more so. 

And in the process become a little less sane 
themselves, with every post. 

Do you remember how many people reacted when Ravi
*first* showed up here? Exactly as I suggest above.
They were CONCERNED about him, afraid that he was
having a breakdown, afraid that he'd do harm either
to himself or his wife, and urging him to get some
kind of professional help. 

Now they treat him as if he's NORMAL, and *encourage*
him to act out even more. They do the same thing 
with Robin, and more recently with Dan Friedman.

Obsessing on another person to the point that 
people do it on this forum is *not* normal. The
only even remotely benevolent way I can see the
phenomenon is that the people engaged in it --
over a dozen of them, now -- just Don't Have 
Lives, and this behavior has taken the place of 
what other, more sane people do for fun and 
entertainment.

But it really is past the point of funny or enter-
taining now. You've got people here who think it
is NORMAL for someone to threaten another person
with physical harm because they embarrassed them
in front of their wife a year and a half ago. 

I honestly think that a lot of it really *IS*
attributable to the Cult Experience. Those who
have come to believe that their behavior on FFL
is NORMAL are comparing it to levels of craziness
they've seen around them in other TMers for 
decades now, and come to take for granted. They 
don't see anything the least bit wrong with 
becoming this obsessive, or acting out one's 
obsessions in this way. 

Thanks for occasionally being one of the relatively
sane voices here, Steve. You're definitely in the 
minority these days, and that's a compliment.


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