Judy's attributing words to me that I did not write or even think is Judy's 
"alternate approach to supplying subtext"?!  Oh, wait, I think I get it.  
You're making a joke.  Please tell me you're making a joke.  And not twisting 
into a pretzel to avoid criticizing Judy.   


Raunchy, do you really think that the only parameter of fair fighting is 
keeping discussions out in the open?!  I disagree.  I think there are others 
that are at least equally important.


I notice how you put all of this on me and none of it on Judy, totally ignoring 
how she responded to my apology.  Of course that's what she did with the me and 
Robin kafufel.  Perhaps a requirement to belong to her clique?  


I would say rather if we can't be honest with ourselves, how can we be honest 
with others.  Discerning respected others have told me that I am honest with 
myself about my shortcomings to a very good degree.  Perhaps my memory is not 
as good as Judy's nor my ability to deal with the sheer volume of posts and 
archives.  But my intention about and devotion to big and little truths is at 
least as strong as hers, if not stronger.        



________________________________
 From: raunchydog <raunchy...@yahoo.com>
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Sunday, September 23, 2012 10:56 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re:to everyone -- writing for the Church of $cientology
 

  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@...> wrote:
>
> Supplying some mental floss for this exchange and just in case Judy's use of 
> quotation marks is obfuscating, I'm sure it's not me she is quoting as I did 
> not write those words.  Or even think them.  Maybe herself?  Or someone 
> from another decade?  
> 
> 
> PS  I'd rather be a supposed "pompous, reality-avoiding dormouse" than a 
> rageful, reality-obfuscating dirty fighter.  BTW, The previous sentence 
> shows the clean fighting way of using quotation marks as the words enclosed 
> therein were actually written by a FFL poster.    
> 

You've got a pretty strong charge going on there, Share. Maybe it's something 
to reflect upon. It's quite clear to me Judy wasn't quoting anything you 
actually said. Her alternate approach to supplying subtext, that I've seen her 
use with Barry, might have been: Says Share, especially disliking the 
negativity of having her mistakes and falsehoods called to her attention. She 
really hates that. 

Seems to me fighting fairly means keeping the discussion out in the open. 
Private emails, or even the gist of them that leak into the public discussion, 
Sal's for example, is more likely to engender reality-obfuscating as well as 
mistrust and room to stretch or avoid the truth. 

"I don't see how anybody can ever hope to get anywhere near the larger Truth if 
they have no concern for the smaller truths of everyday life, including on this 
forum. If we can't be honest with each other, how can we ever be honest with 
ourselves?" ~J. Stein

> 
> ________________________________
>  From: authfriend <authfriend@...>
> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
> Sent: Saturday, September 22, 2012 7:10 PM
> Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re:to Judy & everyone -- writing for the Church of 
> $cientology
> 
> 
>   
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@> wrote:
> >
> > My apologies to everyone including Judy for my part in
> > this disagreement.  If anyone has questions or concerns
> > about my part in it or in the one with Robin, again my
> > request is that you email me directly for sake of
> > sparing the forum any further negativity.
> 
> "Especially the negativity of having my mistakes and
> falsehoods called to my attention. I really hate that."
>


 

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