Ditto this - dear Share, a really clueless, crazy post and.."You and I never began anew, and even if we had, this post of yours would have put us right back where we were."
On Sat, Jan 12, 2013 at 11:30 AM, authfriend <authfri...@yahoo.com> wrote: > ** > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: > > > > During my Christmas vacation I realized that if I'm lucky, I have about > 30 more years on this planet. I intend to use that time as juicily and > joyfully as possible, and hopefully at the exact same time add to or at > least support the enjoyment of others. > > > > As part of this, and perhaps some of you have noticed, I've decided to > not reply to certain kinds of posts to me. I have felt so much better > since beginning to do this. And FFL has seemed more fun too. > > > > As far as I'm concerned the new year is the time to begin anew > > and to drop conflicts from the past year. I'm so grateful > > because it seems that Judy and Ravi and I have begun anew. > > Sorry to disappoint, toots. You and I never "began anew," > and even if we had, this post of yours would have put us > right back where we were. > > You're not the least bit interested in "dropping conflicts > from the past year." Rather, you're intent on keeping them > going. > > If you don't understand why I say that, show your post to > your pastoral counselor. Maybe she will have the patience > to explain it to you. I don't. > > "Love and hugs" indeed. Dig yourself, Share. > > > > Maybe Raunchy and I a little bit too. I hope so. > > > > But Ann and Emily have continued at just about every opportunity to > snipe nastily at me. They continue to have a confrontational tone towards > me, even on the most mundane of topics. Weird! Plus they ignore it when I > do post a positive reply to them. > > > > > > You would think that Ann with her full life and Emily with her running > out of money situation would have better things to do with their time and > energy and attention than to nastily carry a grudge against me into the new > year. Plus their grudges began with an upset between me and Robin! So IMO > there's something decidedly wacky about their carrying this grudge into the > new year. And I won't be a part of it. > > > > > > > > I will continue to reply to them such as I have been doing. But I will > not reply to any posts that are nasty, condescending, confrontational, > snide, etc. In other words, grudgy! Who does such exchanges benefit? NO > ONE! > > > > > > OTOH thank you to everyone who's made FFL so enjoyable during the > holidays and even more recently. You all have shown me that it's possible > to have great discussions and good humor without being nasty. > > > > love and hugs > > > > Share > > > > >
