Mr. Price,

A One eyed purple people eater. A ribbed condom. Same thing. :)



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bob Price  wrote:
>
> Emily,
> 
> As you thought, Playa is much less like that than Cancun. We're staying 
> 
> with friends that own a nice place near the water. Although it's
> warm, it's been cloudy, but, as the wife likes to reminds me, I need to work 
> on my
> gratitude. I have noticed that it's impossible to be angry (or fearful), and
> grateful at the same time. My only requirement for a therapist is a sense of
> humor, how else could they understand God (smiley face). 
> 
> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gVAnlke_xUY
> 
> 
> 
> ________________________________
> From: Emily Reyn 
> To: "FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com"  
> Sent: Monday, January 28, 2013 9:09:48 AM
> Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Challenge: Talk about the issue, not the 
> people who brought it up
> 
> 
> 
> Thanks Bob.  I love Marc Cohn.  When I was turning 40, a friend, whose 
> birthday was 5 days from mine set up a trip to Cancun with a couple of other 
> friends of hers.  One of those timeshare deals.  My first trip to Mexico.  
> She flew us first class - my first time on first class - what a great thing. 
>  We were assaulted with the "program" once we got there, but we did make it 
> to chitzen itza and did some snorkeling and I loved the pool. The hotel 
> grounds had a pervasive smell of septic, in that the system was failing, 
> which ruined the beach - too much development on that spit to put it mildly. 
>  After a couple of nights of being herded around like cattle to the 
> different clubs, where waitresses tried to force shots of very bad tequila 
> down us, I ditched.  I was carrying around a Spanish/English dictionary and 
> hailed a cab to go the older part of town and found a jazz club run by an 
> expat with live music - the best night I had.  We all determined
>  that Playa Del Carmen was where we would go next time, but that time never 
> came, as is often the case.  Nice place to be right now.  As an aside, I 
> saw the family counselor yesterday, who took one look at me in my Sun Valley 
> wool hat, two scarves, and raincoat covered in dog hair, and informed me that 
> it's a myth that motivation precedes action.  I must get going (smiley 
> face).  
> 
> 
> 
> >________________________________
> > From: Bob Price 
> >To: "FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com"  
> >Sent: Sunday, January 27, 2013 3:24 PM
> >Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Challenge: Talk about the issue, not the 
> >people who brought it up
> > 
> >
> >  
> >Too bad about the link, it played just fine in Playa Del Carmen; how about 
> >these:
> >
> >OBBA:
> >
> >http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rwR0n87v2BQ
> >
> >EMILY:
> >
> >http://tinyurl.com/ah6ye8j
> >
> >ONCE UPON A TIME....:
> >
> >http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uvDJ5a6KZj4
> >
> >________________________________
> >From: Emily Reyn emilymae.reyn@...>
> >To: "FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com" FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com> 
> >Sent: Sunday, January 27, 2013 9:41:52 AM
> >Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Challenge: Talk about the issue, not the 
> >people who brought it up
> >
> >I noted the same about the link, but know the song and thus moved to Bob's 
> >other link of the book.  What a great book; a great offering with wonderful 
> >drawings.  The pages turn for you, which is very cool.  That is a 
> >pertinent link to what Curtis posted and I have saved it to peruse.  
> >
> >>________________________________
> >> From: obbajeeba no_re...@yahoogroups.com>
> >>To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
> >>Sent: Sunday, January 27, 2013 6:28 AM
> >>Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Challenge: Talk about the issue, not the 
> >>people who brought it up
> >> 
> >>
> >>  
> >>FFL, the endless battle of who did what, and how come I am not fucking 
> >>enlightened yet. 
> >>
> >>Hey Bob, the link you put at the end of your post below on this thread, it 
> >>does not work if one lives in the States. I love Purple rain to go along 
> >>with those purple high stretch stiletto boots, please share a link we can 
> >>see from here, the States.. Emily would most likely appreciate it too!
> >>The mention in a post to the Turq, I do not live in Fairfield, and not in 
> >>Manhattan (deduct my non response of 72nd and 4th)(nor the L train from 
> >>Willamsburg) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dhgjEObtrWE  Oh,Give me a 
> >>ticket on an Air-o-plane."  you now have minus three areas I may or may 
> >>not live,at certain times. :)
> >>I live in my skin, the blanket of FFL. You guys and ladies, are my warmth. 
> >>:)
> >>
> >>--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bob Price  wrote:
> >>>
> >>> MILAREPA once sent three of his devotees, each with a
> >>> 
> >>> blanket, into the mountains of Tibet with the instruction to not return 
> >>> until
> >>> they had mastered their inner heat. 
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> The monks found an ice field, laid out their blankets, and
> >>> began to mediate; windstorms and angry blizzards pummeled the three 
> >>> adherents and
> >>> covered them with ice and snow, but the three continued to mediate 
> >>> without interruption.
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> Finally, after ten years had passed, one of the monks opened
> >>> his eyes and glared at the monk beside him and angrily shouted: 
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> "You're sitting on my blanket!"
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> The angry monk then closed his eyes and the three continued to 
> >>> mediate. 
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> More wind, snow and ice storms hit the mountain and froze the
> >>> monks solid, but still they continued their practice without interruption.
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> After another ten years had passed the second monk opened his eyes and 
> >>> shouted:
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> "No I'm not!"
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> The second angry monk then closed his eyes again, and the
> >>> three continued to mediate peacefully. 
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> More blizzards and wind storms hit the mountain and covered
> >>> the three monks with freezing rain and snow; the howling wind was 
> >>> deafening,
> >>> and at times the three mediating monks were encased in solid blocks of 
> >>> ice, but
> >>> they remained immoveable and continued to mediate uninterrupted.
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> Finally, after another ten years had passed (making it
> >>> thirty years since they had arrived), the third monk suddenly jumped up, 
> >>> grabbed
> >>> his blanket, and ran down the mountain, back to the monastery where 
> >>> MILAREPA was waiting. 
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> MILAREPA asked the devotee:
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> "Why have you returned, have you mastered your inner heat?"
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> And the third monk answered:
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> "No master, I'm back because I got sick and tired of all the bickering 
> >>> and fighting!"
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> For OBBA:
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4bydB3-k-qU
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> ________________________________
> >>> From: turquoiseb 
> >>> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
> >>> Sent: Saturday, January 26, 2013 9:44:21 AM
> >>> Subject: [FairfieldLife] Challenge: Talk about the issue, not the people 
> >>> who brought it up
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>> Just so this doesn't get buried inside a topic many
> >>> people weren't reading, here it is with a new title,
> >>> and under a new thread.
> >>> 
> >>> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
> >>> >
> >>> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
> >>> > > 
> >>> > > What makes you think that this "negatively charged tone"
> >>> > > is in THEM? It seems to me that a large number of people
> >>> > > *project* such things ONTO the TM critics, because they're
> >>> > > heavily attached to Maharishi and TM, and *their* buttons
> >>> > > got pushed. They're experiencing emotions inside themselves
> >>> > > that they perceive as negative, so they project the source
> >>> > > of that perceived negativity onto the critic. 
> >>> > 
> >>> > To expand upon this, Share, here's what I saw happen
> >>> > in this thread about the fundraising for Vedaland. 
> >>> > 
> >>> > Based upon what Michael and Salyavin have said about
> >>> > this incident, it seems clear that the TM organization
> >>> > not only was guilty of selling shares in a venture they
> >>> > knew was not going to happen because Doug was dying,
> >>> > they did so *on long-term residence courses*, sending
> >>> > people to solicit partnerships/donations from people
> >>> > who were rounding, and thus had been instructed to
> >>> > not make any serious decisions while rounding. 
> >>> > 
> >>> > OK, that strikes me as a pretty big "WTF moment."
> >>> > 
> >>> > And so far, in my quick re-read of the thread, it seems
> >>> > that other than Michael, Salyavin and myself, no one
> >>> > from the still-loyal-to-TM camp has really commented
> >>> > *on the issue itself*. Buck came the closest. 
> >>> > 
> >>> > Most others have been playing one form or another of
> >>> > "Kill the messenger," either suggesting that something
> >>> > is wrong with Michael or the other critics, or that
> >>> > something was wrong with their "tone," that it was
> >>> > "negative."
> >>> > 
> >>> > Here's what I think. 
> >>> > 
> >>> > The negativity is in the "Kill the messenger" types.
> >>> > They heard something *that they didn't want to hear*. 
> >>> > It caused cognitive dissonance in them. They knew that
> >>> > if they dealt with it directly and said what this news
> >>> > made them *feel* about the organization they've been
> >>> > part of for so long, and said it honestly, they'd be
> >>> > perceived by other TBs as "negative." So they stayed
> >>> > as far away from the real issue as possible.
> >>> > 
> >>> > Instead they projected the inner turmoil they were 
> >>> > feeling about the issue onto the people who *were* 
> >>> > talking about the issue, and tried to turn the thread 
> >>> > into talking about *them* instead. Classic "Kill the 
> >>> > messenger," and classic cult.
> >>> > 
> >>> > You seem to be full of advice today on how Michael or
> >>> > others could clean up their "negatively charged tone."
> >>> > Well, here's some advice from me. Try not to project
> >>> > the button-pushed turmoil inside yourself onto other
> >>> > people, and lash out at them rather than dealing with
> >>> > what they said. 
> >>> > 
> >>> > It's not whether Michael is outraged over this issue.
> >>> > That's fairly obvious. The bigger question is, "Why
> >>> > aren't you?"
> >>> > 
> >>> > How 'bout it, TM-supporters? Take this issue and discuss
> >>> > it *AS* issue, no personalities, and no attempts at
> >>> > well-poisoning and slander. 
> >>> > 
> >>> > Please explain how what the TM did in this case can be
> >>> > seen as OK, legal, or benevolent. Please explain why
> >>> > you still feel the need to support them or defend them,
> >>> > if that's what you wind up doing. But talk about the
> >>> > issue *itself*, not the people who brought it up. 
> >>> > 
> >>> > We'll wait...
> >>> 
> >>> Suggestions for possible discussion points?
> >>> 
> >>> - Did you ever experience, while on rounding courses, 
> >>> representatives of the TMO "pitching" you on things
> >>> that cost money? You know, like "the next big course
> >>> you just had to attend," or "the next technique you
> >>> just had to have," or the next Maharishi-add-on 
> >>> product you just had to buy, be it Ayurveda or S-V
> >>> houses? 
> >>> 
> >>> - If so, how do you reconcile this fairly obvious 
> >>> attempt to get you to spend more money or donate more
> >>> money with the clear instructions you were given at
> >>> the start of every rounding course, "Don't make any
> >>> major decisions while you are here?"
> >>> 
> >>> - What *is* it about the TM technique that makes it
> >>> "100% positive" when done as advertised, 20 minutes
> >>> twice a day, but that makes it so powerful during
> >>> rounding courses that you have to be assigned a 
> >>> "buddy" to keep track of you, and you are prohibited
> >>> from leaving the course premises? Clearly the people
> >>> who made up the "buddy" and the "don't leave the
> >>> course" rules believed that people on rounding courses
> >>> were in a somewhat disabled state, because they made
> >>> up these rules to protect them (and, of course, to
> >>> protect the movement, lest they get into any trouble
> >>> while spaced out walking around in the community where
> >>> the course was being held). But they didn't believe
> >>> in the truth of the "Don't make any major decisions
> >>> rule" enough to refrain from trying to SELL them
> >>> things on courses? WTF?
> >>> 
> >>> 
> >>>  Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â 
> >>> 
> >>>
> >>
> >>
> >>
> >>
> >  
> >
> >
> >
>   
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