Dear John, I am going to see Dennis Flaherty, just for fun - I remain open - I remembered his name from your mention months ago. Thanks for the referral. Emily
>________________________________ > From: John <jr_...@yahoo.com> >To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com >Sent: Thursday, January 31, 2013 2:51 PM >Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios to >John > > > > > >--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: >> >> I think jyotish compatability readings are very useful. And I'm also >> grateful for modern science findings since there are many people who don't >> know about and or believe in jyotish. But mainly in my post I was making a >> point about positivity to negativity ratios as regards human happiness. My >> guess is that a couple with a high compatability number, compatible kuja >> doshas and placements of rahu ketu axis, would be much more likely to >> spontaneously generate that 5 to 1 ratio. >> >> >> OTHO, I've heard stories of people with high compatability numbers plus >> murhurta for auspicious wedding date who still got divorced. And people >> with low compatability whose marriage thrived. >> >> Do you know a good jyotishi? I'd like to get a reading for the coming >> year. Thank you. >> > >Share, > >Yes, you can consult with my jyotish teachers in the past. The first one is >Brendan Feeley. He's based in the Washington DC area. > >The second one is Dennis Flaherty who is working in the Seattle, WA area. > >The third one is Robert Koch who is living in Bend, Oregon (at least, that's >where he was the last time I saw him). > >They should have their own websites on the internet. You can email them if >you want a reading. > >JR > >> >> ________________________________ >> From: John >> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com >> Sent: Thursday, January 31, 2013 12:27 PM >> Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios >> >> >>  >> Share, >> >> The ancient rishis had a method for successful marriages. That's by >> comparing the birth charts of the couples who are planning to get married. >> >> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: >> > >> > Positivity: Top Notch Research Reveals the 3 to 1 Ratio That Will Change >> > Your Life by Barbara L. Fredrickson, PhDWhy Marriages Succeed or Fail: >> > And How You Can Make Yours Last by John Gottman, PhD >> > >> > After extensive observation, Gottman >> > and his team of researchers at Univ. of Washington have been able to >> > predict with an accuracy rate over 90 % which marriages will succeed and >> > which will fail. One of their findings is that in a marriage >> > that lasts, there is a 5 to 1 ratio of positive to negative moments. >> > >> > In comparison, Fredrickson and other researchers have found that in >> > order to do well, people need a ratio of 3 to 1 positive, heart felt >> > thoughts and feelings to negative ones; 4 to 1, etc. in order to >> > flourish. >> > >> > > > > >
