[FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios to John

[John]

Emily,

Yes, he's very intuitive and helpful.  He speaks very well and can explain 
clearly what he sees according to jyotish principles.

JR

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn  wrote:
>
> Dear John, I am going to see Dennis Flaherty, just for fun - I remain open - 
> I remembered his name from your mention months ago.  Thanks for the 
> referral. Emily
> 
> 
> 
> >________________________________
> > From: John 
> >To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
> >Sent: Thursday, January 31, 2013 2:51 PM
> >Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios 
> >to John
> > 
> >
> >  
> >
> >
> >--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long  wrote:
> >>
> >> I think jyotish compatability readings are very useful.  And I'm also 
> >> grateful for modern science findings since there are many people who don't 
> >> know about and or believe in jyotish.  But mainly in my post I was 
> >> making a point about positivity to negativity ratios as regards human 
> >> happiness.  My guess is that a couple with a high compatability number, 
> >> compatible kuja doshas and placements of rahu ketu axis, would be much 
> >> more likely to spontaneously generate that 5 to 1 ratio.
> >> 
> >> 
> >> OTHO, I've heard stories of people with high compatability numbers plus 
> >> murhurta for auspicious wedding date who still got divorced.  And 
> >> people with low compatability whose marriage thrived.
> >> 
> >> Do you know a good jyotishi?  I'd like to get a reading for the coming 
> >> year.  Thank you.  
> >>
> >
> >Share,
> >
> >Yes, you can consult with my jyotish teachers in the past.  The first one is 
> >Brendan Feeley.  He's based in the Washington DC area.
> >
> >The second one is Dennis Flaherty who is working in the Seattle, WA area.
> >
> >The third one is Robert Koch who is living in Bend, Oregon (at least, that's 
> >where he was the last time I saw him).
> >
> >They should have their own websites on the internet.  You can email them if 
> >you want a reading.
> >
> >JR
> >
> >> 
> >> ________________________________
> >>  From: John 
> >> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
> >> Sent: Thursday, January 31, 2013 12:27 PM
> >> Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: 2 books about positivity to negativity ratios
> >> 
> >> 
> >>   
> >> Share,
> >> 
> >> The ancient rishis had a method for successful marriages.  That's by 
> >> comparing the birth charts of the couples who are planning to get married. 
> >> 
> >> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long  wrote:
> >> >
> >> > Positivity:  Top Notch Research Reveals the 3 to 1 Ratio That Will 
> >> > Change Your Life by Barbara L. Fredrickson, PhDWhy Marriages Succeed or 
> >> > Fail:  And How You Can Make Yours Last by John Gottman, PhD
> >> > 
> >> > After extensive observation, Gottman
> >> >  and his team of researchers at Univ. of Washington have been able to 
> >> > predict with an accuracy rate over 90 % which marriages will succeed and 
> >> > which will fail.  One of their findings is that in a marriage
> >> >  that lasts, there is a 5 to 1 ratio of positive to negative moments.
> >> > 
> >> > In comparison, Fredrickson and other researchers have found that in
> >> >  order to do well, people need a ratio of 3 to 1 positive, heart felt 
> >> > thoughts and feelings to negative ones; 4 to 1, etc. in order to 
> >> > flourish. 
> >> >
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