That's great Judy. But parents aren't the only sources of stress and trauma in childhood.
On Saturday, November 16, 2013 11:47 AM, "[email protected]" <[email protected]> wrote: P.S.: You're quite right about my childhood, albeit not in the way you hope. I had a happy, stress-free childhood with two parents who loved me deeply and steadfastly. They passed on their own devotion to authenticity and loathing of phoniness to me. ---In [email protected], <authfriend@...> wrote: (snicker) Thanks for proving my point, Share. You're so dependable in that regard. ---In [email protected], <sharelong60@...> wrote: > > >Judy, imo your self righteousness with regards to authenticity is itself proof >of over compensation. Your alleged devotion to authenticity and your opinions >of me also imo are both results of your childhood. And that's all I'm going to >say. > > > > > > >On Saturday, November 16, 2013 11:10 AM, "authfriend@..." <authfriend@...> >wrote: > > >Let me just put it this way, Share. I think your actual motivations for the >way you respond to people are quite different from what you claim. I think >most of your behavior on FFL is carefully tailored to attempt to make people >think highly of you. The problem is that when your control slips, you show a >completely different face. > > >That's all I'll say for now, except to note that the quality in people I value >most highly is authenticity, and the quality I most despise is lack of same. >An inauthentic pose of virtue, as far as I'm concerned, is far more >reprehensible than an authentic, let-it-all-hang-out display of vice. > > > > > > > > > > >---In [email protected], <sharelong60@...> wrote: > > >Judy, a way more interesting question imho is why do you even care what I >think turq thinks. Should I even feed your strange interest by answering you? >What the heck: I doubt turq thinks about me much. Probably he hasn't changed >his mind. But so what? See, I think in your mind that means I should be mean >to him and not say thanks for a post I like, etc. But for me it's important to >tell people when I like their posts. It's also important for me to disagree >with people who are ganging up on someone. I'm sure there's a karmic reason >but I don't need to figure it out for now. It feels right when I do both and >that's why I do them. > > > > > > >On Saturday, November 16, 2013 9:26 AM, "authfriend@..." <authfriend@...> >wrote: > > >Say, Share, another question I asked you yesterday that you didn't respond to: >Do you think Barry has changed his mind about you since his "SHUT THE FUCK UP" >post? > > >Share fawned: > > >> 7 posts this morning! This is one of the qualities I like about turq, his >> generosity, and that his >> posts are often about fascinating stuff. That's all I got for now (-: > > > >On Saturday, November 16, 2013 5:42 AM, TurquoiseB <turquoiseb@...> wrote: > > >How many minions does it take to change a light bulb? Or into one? > > > > > >
