--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Peter <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > I also noticed you started > to do what I did and get caught up in what > psychoanalytic thought calls projective > identification. The person in question unconsciously > projects a unintegrated/disowned aspect of their > personality onto others and provokes them into > responding/behaving in accord with that unintegrated > part. People have a tendency to "go off" on the person > in question thus perpetuating the abuse he experiences > and recreating this abuse in a repetition compulsion > that unconsciously seeks to resolve the original abuse > in current relationships.
It would seem that this then is a healing mechanism of the mind -- parallel to healing mechanisms in the body. > Unless this is consciously > recognized, it just continues on and on and on until > that complex of samskaras are disolved. And if it is consciously recognized, and stopped, is the healing stopped. Is the dissolving of that particular complex of samskaras left unresolved? ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> Does he tell you he loves you when he hits you? Abuse. Narrated by Halle Berry. http://us.click.yahoo.com/HcoraC/rbOLAA/d1hLAA/0NYolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/