Jim: > it is unrealistic to think anyone is going to follow such > a set of guidelines and/or enforce them.
Absolutely. As nice it would be if FFL were a bit nicer, I think most of us here have been around the block enough times with the TMO to see that any attempt to *make* it a nicer place by creating more "guidelines" and "enforcing" them is Just Another Power Trip. I think it's good every so often for people to speak up and try to inspire the other posters here to make the place as a whole nicer by striving harder to be nice themselves. Trying to inspire people is rarely a Power Trip and sometimes even works; trying to browbeat them with "guidelines" and "enforcement" is pretty much always a Power Trip and almost never works. I mean...that's what the TMO does, right? All you have to do is look at that organi- zation and see how well that approach works. Is that *really* what you want Fairfield Life to become? To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/