--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "curtisdeltablues" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Turq, > > This may fall into a category of experiences that you have > had that I have not.
Possibly. > It seems like this kind of energy power might get you to look at > someone, but attraction seems so much more complex to me. > Each age group and stage of life seems to join the party with a > different agenda and expectations that must be satisfied to make > it work. I agree with you that real attraction is probably very complex, but this is pretty simple. It's not anything you do to *yourself* to "make yourself look more attractive." It's something that you do to the other person, to shift them into a state of attention in which they find you more attrac- tive. So they focus on you more than they might have otherwise. However, once you've got their attention, if you have a big wart on the end of your nose and a beer belly like Homer Simpson's, other factors take over and the other party might tend to "wake up" enough to think, "*What* could I have been thinking?" :-) > As soon as someone starts talking with you a whole different > set of rules apply, no matter what the unconscious signals > are being sent on a more primal level. The only guys that > I see going under a woman's spell seem to be guys who can't > put together a good relationship so they give their power > to women. And therefore possibly great husband material in ages in which finding a guy to put a roof over your head was a big priority. :-) > I think is may be the same for women. I would *hope* that women are deep enough not to fall for occult flash for long. But I've certainly seen a lot of them fall for it for short periods of time. > Most of us seem to get superficially attracted and then have > a variety of criteria that a desirable partner needs before > we can be deeply attracted. What I'm talking about is that initial attraction. One would have to "push it out" for a long, long time to overcome a reasonable set of "criteria" in the other party. > I don't know what mojo power can work outside those needs > being met. That's part of the point. It's kind of a lowvibe thing to do, spiritually. You're manipulating some- one for the momentary "rush" you get from getting them to focus their attention on you. Big whoop. There are so much more interesting things out there, both relationship-wise and spiritually. > Like the criteria you mentioned for how auditory a woman > must be and her relationship with music lyrics, which I > thought was spot on for me as well. Kinda thought you'd identify with that one. :-) It's important. > I may be momentarily attracted to some one exuding "something", > but if she sounds like Heather Graham I lose all interest > quickly. Heather Graham has a voice? :-) > (She might actually be a good example of the limits of primal > mojo) She might. But I think she's actually a pretty ballsy actor. She takes chances that Just A Pretty Face or someone who was Just Another Occult Wrap Artist wouldn't take. She's been in some neat movies. Not that I'm wrapped or anything. :-) :-) :-)
