Judy writes: snipped The thing about Brahman, as Ken Wilber points out, is that It is "One without a second," One without an opposite. If you say It is X, that means It is not not-X, which gives not-X an existence independent of Brahman; it gives Brahman an opposite, a second.
TomT: Brahman is that in which both the Absolute and the Relative coexist and that which knows that is you. You are the glue that can know that both can exist and you are the only way that both can be know at the same time. That is why it is called the ultimate paradox. on the one hand is the relative (actually) and on the other hand is the absolute (actually). That which is the only thing that can know both of them as the singularity that is one without a second is you. Enjoy Tom