Re: Spencer and making decisions (was my vet's office called)

[Lernermichelle]

I think that hugging him is probably the best thing, all around. It is pretty much the only thing that has ever made me feel better, when going through this.   lots of love, michelle    In a message dated 9/14/2006 3:48:21 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: I know for a fact that they are "pessimistic" because of his felv/fiv status, I don't know for certain, but I suspect they also feel his cancer is in an advanced stage.  I've asked for their opinions based on their intuition and experience and they've given it to me.  You're right, our nature does lead us to question our decisions after the fact, no matter what those decisions were.  It's time to take the advice that I've given to so many, to make peace with the "what ifs" as best I can, base my decisions on the information I have to go on and do what I feel is in Spencer's best interest.  And yes, cancer does indeed suck. I'm going to go hug my cat, Nina