This message is from: John and Martie Bolinski <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>

I am also guilty of heavy hands. My first horse was a very heavy
mouthed ex riding stable hack and runaway and taught me to ride with a
long shank pelham; ride on the snaffle until you need the curb. My
most recent riding horse, also not a Fjord used to give me a heavy
head shaking every time I rode; he would pull with the snaffle, put
his head down and shake his head/neck so hard I thought he would throw
me. Turns out he had a really bad mouth, so bad that I had to go to a
hackamore. Nor THAT taught me not to be so heavy on the reins! Just a
little pull up on the reins an he responds. Too much and back to the
head down, shake. but so long as I stay off his nose he responds well
to a light touch.

Then I get into the cart with my Fjord, Kilar, and back we go to
square one. He pulls, I pull harder. He pulls harder yet, I pull
harder. We go faster. I finally realize I am hanging on his mouth and
give him his head. He stumbles. He eases up. I ease up. We slow down.
WHY can't I just remember this every time I dri ve!! It is OK when I
have my instructor in the cart. She slaps my hands when she sees it. I
can't seem to figure it out for myself until the poor horse is
pulling. And I don't want to ruin him by doing this. Luckily he is
very forgiving. And NOT a runaway. He seems to think this is some kind
of game of tug of war.

Well, I'll keep practicing. When we drive together a lot, it gets
easier. Then I take of (for the winter this time) and we start over.
Fjords are so nice.

Debby Stai wrote:

> This message is from: Debby Stai <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
>
> I would agree with this, if you have heavy hands then a harsher bit will not 
> help,
> except!  I do have an Arab that would get "nervous" on the trail, and when 
> we'd
> trot or canter, he would be hard to stop, especially if he thought he was 
> being
> left behind.  In the arena he is very quiet but comes to life on the trail.  I

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