You are amazing, that's exactly what I needed.
The first problem I encountered was this - since the datagrid is selectable by
default which is what I want, the selection is over-powering the button click
and setting the row selection. Per the listbase class and that
isItemHighlighted function you gave me, it looks like they are saying the
selected draws over the highlighted. I can rollover a row and click the
trashcan button and the row highlights and the button goes away. If I re-hover
over the selected row, I can then click the button.
