Here's a review of "Baby Mama," which opens today, for Christianity Today
Online. Also, wanted to let you know that my podcasts this week feature
several kontakia by St Romanos the Melodist (b 475 AD, Syrian). It's Holy
Week for Orthodox Christians, and these kontakia (that is, long poetic hymns
on bible themes) were designed to be "sung sermons," making bible stories
memorable for worshipers who could not afford to own a bible and were likely
illiterate anyway. The poetry is magnificent.

In the "Lament of the Mother of
God,"<http://audio.ancientfaith.com/frederica/fhn_lamentation.mp3>Mary
speaks with Jesus on the way to Calvary, and asks some good questions,
like: why do you have to suffer now, since you have been able to heal people
and raise the dead without suffering? when you rise from the dead, will you
go straight to heaven, or will I have a chance to see you again?

In "On Judas," <http://audio.ancientfaith.com/frederica/fhn_judas.mp3> St
Romanos contrasts the generosity of Christ toward his disciples with the
tragedy of Judas' choice. Parallelism, eg, Jesus washed Judas' feet, and
Judas immediately runs to betray him.

In "Peter's 
Denial"<http://audio.ancientfaith.com/frederica/fhn_petersdenial.mp3>,
we are taken through a dramatic description of that event on the night
before the Crucifixion. While Peter sits in the courtyard "thoughtful and
gloomy," a servant girl "looked him all over and walked all round the
disciple; up and down she examined him closely..."

In "On the Victory of the
Cross"<http://audio.ancientfaith.com/frederica/fhn_cross.mp3>,
the devil and hell argue (sometimes humorously) over whether they need to be
concerned about the Cross.

when I began this mailing list some 5 years ago or so, I was publishing
about one article a week, and that frequency has really decreased. Partly
it's that I've been occupied more with travel, speaking, book-writing, and
overseeing things for my mom who is now in a nursing home. But recently I've
had some free-er time, and now that I think about it, I think that my basic
inner habit of writing has changed.

What I mean is, I used to write constantly in my head. I think a lot of
writers have this habit. It is kind of like going through life looking at
things through a videocam viewfinder. Whatever I saw or thought I was
reflexively translating into words, mentally presenting it and imagining how
I would express it to a reader. Also, there's thinking about what would be
the best place to publish it, and there is some excitable pride mixed in
there. Somehow the steam has gone out of me for all that. And when I do
write, it's mostly commentary on some other thing, like movie reviews or
books about ancient texts. I'm less interested in doing writing that tries
to argue or persuade.

Overall I think it's a good thing. I seem to be able to pray more and my
inner life isn't as random and distracted. I'm not anywhere near "pray
constantly", but I do pray more, and I feel more peaceful. I worry a little
over whether I'm losing the basic desire to write. (I don't feel blocked,
just blank.) But I think maybe that desire to communicate is just turning to
different forms. Like the emphasis changing to communicating in person, by
giving speehes or interacting with people I meet in my travels, or replying
to people who send me emails. A lot of my time already goes into answering
emails; people write me about all kinds of spiritual and personal
situations, and I think and pray about what they say and how I should reply.
I suspect that is part of what is suctioning away my energy (and time) for
writing. But maybe that's OK--maybe it's better to write to a particular
person and situation than to just be blah-blahing into the air. I still
think that the next book will be a spiritual autobiography of one sort or
another -- drawing on old journals and letters etc--but am still waiting for
the inner green light to get started.

Oh, thinking of old papers, I was honored to get a letter from the library
at the College of Charleston (Charleston, SC, where I grew up) asking to be
the "permanent repository" of my papers. I'm glad to think that somebody
will be interested in the stuff I've kept all these years. I still have
essays I wrote in high school! and I have to admit, I was writing then about
as well as I do now. Just the thinking is better, I hope.

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Baby Mama



In this comedy a single thirty-something organic foods executive can't
sustain a pregnancy, so she hires a ditsy surrogate to carry her baby to
term.



Stars: **



Rated PG -13



Genre: Comedy



Released: April 25, 2008 by Broadway Video



Directed by: Michael McCullers



Runtime: 96 min.



Cast: Tina Fey (Kate), Amy Poehler (Angie), Greg Kinnear (Rob), Dax Shepard
(Carl), Romany Malco (Oscar)



Baby Mama

By Frederica Mathewes-Green



When Chinese food was first becoming popular in the US, some decades ago, a
saying quickly became a cliché: it tastes great, but an hour later you're
hungry all over again.



Some comedies are like that. As long as you're in the theater, you could be
laughing more or less continuously. On the way home, though, the lines and
images that evoked such mirth have somehow evaporated. You sift your mind
for memorable moments, but apparently they weren't all that memorable.
Punchlines seem less punchy. Even the performer's faces blur in retrospect.



That's the case with "Baby Mama." I've sat through enough laugh-less
comedies to be grateful when a movie entertains me, even temporarily-but no
one's going to call this film a classic.



The storyline is unimaginative: Kate, a top exec at the "Round Earth"
organic grocery chain decides that, at 37, mommy-hood is now or never.  But
artificial insemination isn't working, and when she applies to adopt a child
she is turned down. Kate is about to give up hope when runs across a
completely unexpected option: hire another woman to carry her petri-dish
baby. She visits the Chaffee Bicknell surrogacy agency and gets a persuasive
sales pitch from Chaffee herself (Sigourney Weaver): "We don't do our own
taxes any more, we don't program our own computers; we *outsource*."



So Kate meets, and then signs a contract with, an uneducated blonde named
Angie, and offers her $100,000 as a nine-month carrying fee. Not long
afterwards Angie breaks up with her Neanderthal boyfriend, Carl, and moves
into Kate's apartment. This sets the stage for a female version of "The Odd
Couple." Though the humor often dwells on pregnancy, babies, and female body
functions (a prospect likely to keep male viewers out of the theater), the
mainspring of the film is the profound differences in personality between
Kate and Angie.



It's where the movie falters, I think, because those differences are so
stereotyped. Kate is uptight, while Angie fast and loose; Kate's
responsible, while Angie is impulsive and reckless; Kate is smart, and--not
to put too fine a point on it-Angie's stupid. Kate points out that it's no
sign of intelligence when a woman falls asleep with a curling iron in her
hair. Angie retorts, "That only happened two times!"



The formula requires that Kate learn some lessons from Angie too, of course,
but these are less successful in terms of laughs, or even in terms of logic.
It's really not believable that Kate would allow Angie to dress her up for a
night of "clubbing" in an outfit that shoots right past "slinky" and lands
at "skanky." It's not believable that on their night out Kate keeps tossing
back the drinks, as if she had no experience with alcohol. And it doesn't
make sense for Kate to go on after that night accentuating her tidy,
businesslike appearance with abundant cleavage.



The film has a good fix on how to present stupid jokes (and stupid jokes can
be really, really funny) but it seems less clear on what to do with Kate.
Though she lives at a level of income few of us will ever know, the story is
framed so that we'll identify with her, and view Angie and Carl as
appallingly crude, superficial, and sneaky.  It's a bit of awkward timing
that a movie trading so heavily in ridicule of blue-collar characters would
debut so soon after a political dustup over charges of "elitism." (The story
takes place in Pennsylvania, by the way.) It's also a bit uncomfortable that
the only black character in the movie, Oscar (Romany Malco), is a doorman,
and that his role consists largely of reacting to things the crazy white
people do, widening his eyes so you see the whites all around. Since Oscar
has the edge on Carl in so many ways-smarter, kinder, handsomer-I had an
idea that he might offer Angie a romantic alternative, but this was a plot
opportunity missed.



Amy Poehler and Tina Fey are fine in the lead roles, but neither has the
weight to really anchor the movie. Peripheral characters are more diverting,
especially Steve Martin as Barry, the gray-ponytailed space cadet who is
president of "Round Foods," and Sigourney Weaver as Chaffee Bricknell (when
Kate meets her and says that she didn't realize it was a person's name
rather than a partnership, Chaffee lets out a long, uninflected laugh while
gently shaking her curls, then stops abrubtly. It was startling and
original, and I wanted more of that kind of thing.) And Siobhan Fallon is
delightful as the Teutonic-inflected natural childbirth teacher, who
mistakenly affirms Kate and Angie's presence in the class as "wesbians."



So "Baby Mama" is a mixed (diaper) bag. On the plus side, there are a couple
of plot twists that I didn't expect; I hardly expected there to be a plot at
all. On the negative, there are too many moments of unearned sentimentality,
too many montages, too much tinkly music shoving our emotions around. In a
late scene, the music swells and the camera dollies in as Angie apologizes
for complicating Kate's life so much, and says, "Thank you, you made me grow
up." That lurch in the audience's stomach is not morning sickness.



Talk About It:



1. Surrogacy is one of those new medical possibilities that raises moral
questions previous generations never considered. What do you think? Is it
right for a woman to have her fertilized egg implanted in another woman's
womb, and pay her to go through the pregnancy?



2. Throughout the movie there are situations where it's accepted that women
needn't be married to raise a child. Is there a moral dimension to the
decision to become a single mom, or is it just a matter of choice?



3. What do you think of Angie's prospects at the end of the movie? Is it a
happy ending for her? What do you think Angie's and Kate's lives would look
like if you came back ten years later?



Parents' Corner:



The storyline assumes that unmarried people will have sex, that they can
have babies with or without sex, and that they can get pregnant without
having babies (in an early line, Angie exclaims that she is "real good at
getting pregnant," though she has no children). There are crude situations,
for example, when Angie can't get the child-lock off the toilet and climbs
into the sink to relieve herself. A raft of obscenities completes the
movie's range.





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Frederica Mathewes-Green
www.frederica.com
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