Dear moderator, So finally u said it....An excerpt from yr mail..."there are many decent ppl who use the net to meet ppl for friendship/love/realtionship". So, such people who seek love and relationship are "decent". So far u have chosen yr words very carefully. But it seems the true feelings have just come out. Thanks, now I respect u more. Somu
--- Vikram <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: You're mostly finding people on the Net who are only interested in sex because the Net is where most people just go for sex. You wouldn't look for fish in the vegetable market, so why not try to find the guys you're looking for in the right place? And that sure isn't online? Look, most people go to the Net because it's perfect for anonymous encounters, so people who want that will get that. But try coming to meetings, parties, film screenings of the kind organised by Gaybombay or Humsafar and you will meet people in person and those are more likely to result in relationships. In the seven years its been in existence Gaybombay has facilitated many long term relationships, including my own, which was one of the first. But I'm pretty sure all these happened at real life meetings, not over the Net. So stop looking for what the Net is unlikely to give and try coming to a real world meeting where you might get what you want, Vikram =============================================================== i disagree with vikram. it is not black and white as vikram is making it out to be. there are many decent ppl who use the net to meet ppl for friendship/love/realtionship . of course there are those who seek sex. but then this happens in gb paries/meeting as well.. there are some who come to enjoy or make friends and then there are those who come for finding a buddy for quick casual sex. to label either the internet or even the parties/meets one way or the other would not be a fair assesment regards moderator ======================================================================= --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, "handsome_redfort" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: I've been chatting on net for the last 5 month... meet many guys on net. Before i started out on internet I use to see this fuzzy dream that I would meet the kind of guy I m looking for. Some one to put my head on his sholder when I m feeling low and many other things which sound quite soothing for a shy and introward guy like me. I registered myself to the various dating sites. get responses too. But I get only disappointment every time I talk to a new guy. Its all start off with the good and nice words and comes to end with SEX. Is the sex the only thing for a person to enter into friendship with ? Why can't people see the world beyond sex beyond being physical lusty. I m belonging to the community which lives under dark. I have many issues to share. But no one cares. I guess may be I m expecting too much good from the people. I believed in the story of peoples who love each other without any conditions. May be its all hype in the stories and nothing more then that............. I m fed up with the never ending search of this kind ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> 1.2 million kids a year are victims of human trafficking. Stop slavery. http://us.click.yahoo.com/X3SVTD/izNLAA/E2hLAA/WfTolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info ========================== This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking "Reply") will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. Post:- gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Digest Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] No Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Individual Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Contact Us:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Archives are at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Classifieds for personal advertisements are back on www.gaybombay.info site. Please exercise restraint in the language of your personal advertisement. Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
