Hi Indraneel,
read ur mail and felt the emotions vicariously....
the phase u r goin thru now may be very difficult for u to cope with...but friend,i wd advice you to take life as it comes...don't think too much about something....have many hobbies,interests and indulge into them...keep urself occupied most of the times..and u will get someone ,the kind u r looking for ,for sure one day accidently ....
about ur dilemma with ur best firend and her Gf....i wd say..if ur friend is not a gay...and is very good and close friend of urs,dont try to get emotionally involved with him very much...bcos finally he will be going wid the girl only and u will feel lonely and rejected-dejected....also if u get emotionally involved with him,u might expect him physically,which he may not be ready for...and this may make u loose ur close-good pal....so don't fall for a straight guy....
hope my words may help u...all the best and best wishes for ur future life..
Rgds,
Cooldude
Indraneel Sengupta <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Indraneel Sengupta <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Dear Friends,I am a 23 year old Pg student,coming to terms with my sexuality. Well, first of all a big thanx to the moderator for providing a platform where we gay people can speak our minds and exchange our views. Well I am quite a good looking straight acting fellow. I have a good sense of humour which many girls find quite attractive. But lately my life has come to a point where I am finiding it difficult to put on this charade any longer. I am tired of acting like a straight man, and at the same time , am not that brave enough that I will come out of the closet just yet. I am a very social animal and I cant stand being stigmatised by the society. I am in great pain lately, as I have fallen in love with this guy, who thinks of me as his closest buddy. Even his girl friend like me a lot and I cant imagine what will happen if he ever finds out my feelings for him. You know the most difficult thing to do in life , is to see some one you love, love somebody else. I am very depressed by this and life seems to have come to a point where I dont know what to do next. The only thing that I am findig solace is my work and studies.In order to forget him I have tried dating sevaral guys out here in Kolkata , where I live , but most of them are sex starved creeps who thinks about nothing else than sex through out the day. I will be highly obliged if you can please share your views with me.Indraneel.
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