hey! i think, the more these issues are thrashed out in forum like these, the more resolution is obtained... i think people who write on here, should do so without the fear that there are people out to like "get at them". there are many facets of this issue that only come to light with the lived experience of the people concerned.... it is only when people actually are at liberty to discuss the issues that bother them, that others are able to make more informed choices... i grudgingly give credit to people on here who open up their lives for others to learn from.....opening up to become vulnerable to criticism and ridicule is in my opinion a very courageous act. lets go easy on them and listen to what they have to say... its the least we can do for people who belong to this community. the bitchiness is all fun when yu are silent spectator... it gets very upsetting tho, when yu are at the receiving end... i will continue reading on this group... commenting from time to time.... i think ive learnt from people here more than i have from my personal interactions with other queer folk who ive known. i have learnt that we all live such terribly complex lives and its not always possible to pull out the begining and the end of every string. sigining out ryan Hyderabad Karna Mehta <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Dear Salil / Sumeet,
Both of you are missing a vital point. The value system of a person that he has acquired in life from his parents, the society he has lived in and the environment. This value system is DIFFERENT for different person. It is this value system that makes people act differently to a given situation and be comfortable with their acts. Gays and marraige is the situation. Some marry and see nothing wrong with it and adjust with their wife and self. Others think that it is completely wrong. Who is to decide what is correct? To each his own. No point in pushing one's convictions down another's throat. Results in unnecessary fruitless arguments because each is going to be guided his value system. Think it over. Society will evolve and the issue will be resolved. Till then we can keep arguing......... Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info ========================== This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking "Reply") will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. Post:- gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Unsubscribe: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Digest Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] (attachments are removed in the digest mode. You get one or two digest mails per day containing all emails, minus pictures/attachments) No Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Individual Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Contact Us:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Rss feed: http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com/maillist.xml Archives are at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Classifieds for personal advertisements are back on www.gaybombay.info site. Please exercise restraint in the language of your personal advertisement. To post mates/freinds wanted log on to http://pub35.bravenet.com/classified/show.php?usernum=2998156902 Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
