I used to always think that people would just know I'm gay because I'm so nelly. Some straight people still didn't seem to notice, especially women who have wanted me to date them (to my utter surprise and horror! ha ha). But I think a gay man is usually pretty good at spotting another gay man without anything special on him. Usually the second he opens his mouth, the cat is out of the bag.
Peter --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, Roger F <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > I think the point is not to identify bottom/top/versitile it's more to identify being gay. Have you never been out in a non-gay specific place such as a store saw someone you found attractive, but should you approach or not? Should you decide to approach and he turns out to be hetero, he may just turn you down, or beat the crap out of you. My understanding with wrist bands is that you don't have to wonder, if the person you see has a wrist band to identify gay the only thing you risk is being turned down. > > Let's face it straight people don't have to worry, if a guy walks up to a girl to talk does he need to worry about hetero/homo, the answer is NO, if she turns out to be a lesbian she is not exactly going to start calling names or hitting the guy. Do you get the point or am I just rambling on? > > Roger > > Ramesh <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > I agree with Cooper. Why must we wear our sexuality on our sleeve (or wrist?). Do heterosexual men wear some sort of identification to let the girls know they're "straight" (hate the term)? It's time the gay world stopped being so paranoid about being able to get the right catch. There's nothing wrong with bumbling our way through relationships the same as the rest of the world does. > > > manu nehru <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Cooper, > I think he was just suggesting that wrist bands or some such thing be worn for gays to easily identify each other and thus avoid running into the wrong guys. > Manu > > doc cop <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > hi > yesterday someone was inquiring about coloured wrist bands to show there sexual preferances > Why should one where his sexuality on his hand??????????????? > > hetrosexuals have a wide range of sexual preferances > do they wear it on their hands > they find a freind and see if that person can b a mate too > and tehn explore the sexual compatibility and normally make the best out of it > > hence why should gays make the sex preferance their identity or the priority in finding a freind > > cooper > > > > --------------------------------- > Tried the new MSN Messenger? It's cool! Download now. > > > > > --------------------------------- > Here's a new way to find what you're looking for - Yahoo! Answers > > > --------------------------------- > The fish are biting. > Get more visitors on your site using Yahoo! Search Marketing. > > > --------------------------------- > Bored stiff? Loosen up... > Download and play hundreds of games for free on Yahoo! Games. >
