Lemon,
I take your point that you did not know that he was 16 and that he had lied.
I know many other younger underage guys who do that on online forums. But
now that you know his real age, stay away from sex with him.

But let me also give you another bit of advice, albeit unsolicited. When I
say 'stay away from sex with him', I do not at all mean, 'stay away from
him'. Young gay guys need the support and friendship of other mature gay
guys. You say this guy is caring and loving and sensitive. These are good
traits but these traits can be very easily disabused in a younger person
when faced with the harsher realities of real life (something like your
police interlude), or when faced with exploitative adults. Tell him why you
are staying away from sex with him, the importance of not having sex with an
underage person, but do so lovingly, friendly, and sensitively. You may even
promise him a wow sex on his 18th birthday as a birthday gift, provided he
agrees toi wait that long without lying and seducing other adults.

And, given the fact that this loving sensitive guy is at this melleable age,
if you can sensibly hold his hands now and guide him through this phase with
friendship and love and support, in the long run there is every possibility
that your mutual relationship will develop into something wonderful..

Best,
Aditya B

2009/5/6 Lemony Lime <lime.lem...@yahoo.in>

>
>
> HI
>
> May 06 2009
>
> AT 10 am the police officer called me and him to the police station and
> bribed him Rs. 1200
>
> My partner and I visited the police station. I paid Rs.1000 and my partner
> paid Rs. 200
>
> The officer didnt ask even a single question to us.
>
> The officers name is Mr.B in Mulund
>
> He was a top cop with a hyundai sonata, GPS device, Touch screen mobile
> phone, High speed internet with laptop in his office. He caught us when he
> was off duty and returning home on May 5.
>
> Special Message to Aditya - The Guy whom I met on the internet on
> planetromeo.com told me that he is 20 years old and thats why I agreed to
> meet him.
>
> After we had that issue yesterday I took him for dinner in a restaurant and
> there he told me that he is in 11th std. He is taller than me so I thought
> that he is actually 20 years old.
>
> He didnt run away and faced the consequences. He was calling me the whole
> night to see whether I am OK or not. I have never seen a teenager so mature
> caring and lovable.
>
> now after paying bribe we are free and relieved.
>
> Thanks for your views guys!
>
> 
>



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