ek bimar hi dusre bimar ka haal samajh sakta hai Jhoom bara bar Jhoom ( chum bara bar chum )
--- On Mon, 23/8/10, Sanjay Lulla <sanjay_lulla2...@yahoo.com> wrote: From: Sanjay Lulla <sanjay_lulla2...@yahoo.com> Subject: Re: g_b Asking for Solution--gays are sick To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Monday, 23 August, 2010, 1:26 PM jism ki hararat mein rishton ki nazakat ko jhulsa ke dosti bhaichare ko rakh banake ab hume kehte ho ke hum bimar hain little prince-Sanjay N Lulla From: cuteboy <andherig...@yahoo.com> To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thu, August 19, 2010 11:53:07 AM Subject: Re: g_b Asking for Solution--gays are sick I am not being judgemental. all gays are sick even i am sick, the only cure is LUND --- On Wed, 18/8/10, Pratap <mw1_2...@yahoo.com> wrote: From: Pratap <mw1_2...@yahoo.com> Subject: Re: g_b Asking for Solution To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, 18 August, 2010, 2:23 PM Cuteboy Where do you get off saying "don't listen to these sick guys"?! Would you like it if any of "these sick guys" passed a judgement on the way you are living your life?! Or on your nickname?! Please note that unlike you neither Indian nor Aditya were judgemental. They were objective and offered an opinion. You are also welcome to offer your opinion - which you have - but without being judgemental. Bottom line - its between him, his spouse and his God. I wish him luck and the strength to live with whatever decision he makes and the consequences of that decision. Pratap --- On Wed, 8/18/10, cuteboy <andherig...@yahoo.com> wrote: From: cuteboy <andherig...@yahoo.com> Subject: g_b Asking for Solution To: bombaylov...@yahoo.co.in Cc: "G_B" <gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com> Date: Wednesday, August 18, 2010, 1:45 AM Dear Friend I am also in the same situation as yours for last 11 years i have 2 kids, i havent done sex with my wife for 2 1/2 yrs now i go out and sleep with guys once in a while when i get chance sometimes of months i dont go out and i feel very guilty when i leave my family and go out to spend time with guys. one question i will ask you, family comes first or having gay sex ? Please dont ruin your family , your wife and daughter will be shattered & you will lose self respect dont listen to these sick guys and ruin your family, agar ek jhoot kehne se kisi ka Ghar tutne se bach sakta hai to woh jhoot sau baar nahin hazaar baar kaho cheers your friend --- On Wed, 18/8/10, Indian <delhi...@yahoo.com> wrote: From: Indian <delhi...@yahoo.com> Subject: Re: [GB] Asking for Solution To: gaybom...@yahoogroups.com Date: Wednesday, 18 August, 2010, 8:30 AM I agree with Aditya. Just one more point to add though.. The initial reaction of hers may be quite different from what she would think and may decide in due course. Be prepared for any eventuality. Stop cursing yourself. Life is not fair always.. but face it.. Good luck Kam Kamy From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay <adit.b...@gmail.com> To: gaybom...@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tue, 17 August, 2010 13:03:27 Subject: Re: [GB] Asking for Solution Hi, Whatever has been told to you so far and whatever you have thought of as a solution will only increase your suffering and you will never be free. You can choose that or you can choose to liberate yourself of this situation. If you choose the later, I would suggest that you go to your wife, tell her the truth, the whole truth, not hiding anything, not supressing anything...and then ask her to forgive you. Ultimately it does not matter whether she actually forgives you or not, what matters is that you seek that forgiveness in a true spirit of repentance. And whether she forgives you or not, give her the absolute right to decide the future, of you both as a couple, of you as a family, and of you as a person. Accept that decision fully, and respect every part and aspect of it. I wish you have the humanity and the strength to do it. Best, Aditya Bondyopadhyay On 4 August 2010 15:11, kam kamy <bombaylov...@yahoo.co.in> wrote: Dear Friends I am married to a women and also have a daughter. I am having sex with guys since age of 13. I always wanted to tell my parents but could never do it. Now its getting more and more difficult for me to survive with this burden on me. there is no sexual problem , i and my wife are happy but i don't want to be in such a relation where in I sleep with guys also whenever i get a opportunity and i cannot stop sleeping with guys. Now i cant leave my wife and child...................because they are dependant on me. Financially also i am not so rich that i can give her one flat and few hundred thousand and tell her to leave alone. the only option i see is to earn lot of money and make my wife and daughter financially stable and go away from there life. Now to earn money can any one suggest some way..............or some other way to solve my problem. i don't want to wait for next 20 years when i will have sufficient money.
