ghayal ki gat ghayal jane
aur na jane koi
barsan se sunahi yeh bani
-kintu
anubhav jivan ke ghuya baat yeh jani
rahahu chameli ke sang
dhatura bhi mahakat hoi
little prince-Sanjay N Lulla
________________________________
From: cuteboy <andherig...@yahoo.com>
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Mon, August 23, 2010 2:08:38 PM
Subject: Re: g_b Asking for Solution--gays are sick
ek bimar hi dusre bimar ka haal samajh sakta hai
Jhoom bara bar Jhoom ( chum bara bar chum )
--- On Mon, 23/8/10, Sanjay Lulla <sanjay_lulla2...@yahoo.com> wrote:
>From: Sanjay Lulla <sanjay_lulla2...@yahoo.com>
>Subject: Re: g_b Asking for Solution--gays are sick
>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
>Date: Monday, 23 August, 2010, 1:26 PM
>
>
>
>jism ki hararat mein
>rishton ki nazakat ko jhulsa ke
>dosti bhaichare ko rakh banake
>ab hume kehte ho ke hum bimar hain
>
> little prince-Sanjay N Lulla
>
>
>
>
>
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From: cuteboy <andherig...@yahoo.com>
>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
>Sent: Thu, August 19, 2010 11:53:07 AM
>Subject: Re: g_b Asking for Solution--gays are sick
>
>
>I am not being judgemental. all gays are sick
>even i am sick, the only cure is LUND
>
>
>--- On Wed, 18/8/10, Pratap <mw1_2...@yahoo.com> wrote:
>
>
>>From: Pratap <mw1_2...@yahoo.com>
>>Subject: Re: g_b Asking for Solution
>>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
>>Date: Wednesday, 18 August, 2010, 2:23 PM
>>
>>
>>
>>Cuteboy
>>
>>Where do you get off saying "don't listen to these sick guys"?!
>>Would you like it if any of "these sick guys" passed a judgement on the way
>>you
>>are living your life?! Or on your nickname?!
>>
>>Please note that unlike you neither Indian nor Aditya were judgemental. They
>>were objective and offered an opinion.
>>You are also welcome to offer your opinion - which you have - but without
>>being
>>judgemental.
>>
>>Bottom line - its between him, his spouse and his God.
>>
>>I wish him luck and the strength to live with whatever decision he makes and
>>the
>>consequences of that decision.
>>
>>Pratap
>>
>>--- On Wed, 8/18/10, cuteboy <andherig...@yahoo.com> wrote:
>>
>>
>>>From: cuteboy <andherig...@yahoo.com>
>>>Subject: g_b Asking for Solution
>>>To: bombaylov...@yahoo.co.in
>>>Cc: "G_B" <gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com>
>>>Date: Wednesday, August 18, 2010, 1:45 AM
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>Dear Friend
>>>I am also in the same situation as yours for last 11 years
>>>i have 2 kids, i havent done sex with my wife for 2 1/2 yrs now
>>>i go out and sleep with guys once in a while when i get chance
>>>sometimes of months i dont go out and i feel very guilty when i leave my
>>>family
>>>and go out to spend time with guys.
>>>
>>>one question i will ask you,
>>>
>>>family comes first or having gay sex ?
>>>Please dont ruin your family ,
>>>your wife and daughter will be shattered & you will lose self respect
>>>dont listen to these sick guys and ruin your family,
>>>
>>>agar ek jhoot kehne se kisi ka Ghar tutne se bach sakta hai
>>>to woh jhoot sau baar nahin hazaar baar kaho
>>>
>>>cheers
>>>your friend
>>>
>>>
>>>--- On Wed, 18/8/10, Indian <delhi...@yahoo.com> wrote:
>>>
>>>
>>>>From: Indian <delhi...@yahoo.com>
>>>>Subject: Re: [GB] Asking for Solution
>>>>To: gaybom...@yahoogroups.com
>>>>Date: Wednesday, 18 August, 2010, 8:30 AM
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>I agree with Aditya. Just one more point to add though.. The initial
>>>>reaction of
>>>>hers may be quite different from what she would think and may decide in due
>>>>course. Be prepared for any eventuality. Stop cursing yourself. Life is not
>>>>fair
>>>>always.. but face it..
>>>>
>>>>Good luck Kam Kamy
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
________________________________
From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay <adit.b...@gmail.com>
>>>>To: gaybom...@yahoogroups.com
>>>>Sent: Tue, 17 August, 2010 13:03:27
>>>>Subject: Re: [GB] Asking for Solution
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>Hi,
>>>>Whatever has been told to you so far and whatever you have thought of as a
>>>>solution will only increase your suffering and you will never be free. You
>>>>can
>>>>choose that or you can choose to liberate yourself of this situation.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>If you choose the later, I would suggest that you go to your wife, tell her
>>>>the
>>>>truth, the whole truth, not hiding anything, not supressing anything...and
>>>>then
>>>>ask her to forgive you. Ultimately it does not matter whether she actually
>>>>forgives you or not, what matters is that you seek that forgiveness in a
>>>>true
>>>>spirit of repentance.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>And whether she forgives you or not, give her the absolute right to decide
>>>>the
>>>>future, of you both as a couple, of you as a family, and of you as a
>>>>person.
>>>>Accept that decision fully, and respect every part and aspect of it.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>I wish you have the humanity and the strength to do it.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>Best,
>>>>Aditya Bondyopadhyay
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>On 4 August 2010 15:11, kam kamy <bombaylov...@yahoo.co.in> wrote:
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>>Dear Friends
>>>>>
>>>>>I am married to a women and also have a daughter. I am having sex with
>>>>>guys
>>>>>since age of 13. I always wanted to tell my parents but could never do it.
>>>>>Now
>>>>>its getting more and more difficult for me to survive with this burden on
>>>>>me.
>>>>>there is no sexual problem , i and my wife are happy but i don't want to
>>>>>be in
>>>>>such a relation where in I sleep with guys also whenever i get a
>>>>>opportunity and
>>>>>i cannot stop sleeping with guys. Now i cant leave my wife and
>>>>>child...................because they are dependant on me. Financially also
>>>>>i am
>>>>>not so rich that i can give her one flat and few hundred thousand and tell
>>>>>her
>>>>>to leave alone.
>>>>>
>>>>>the only option i see is to earn lot of money and make my wife and
>>>>>daughter
>>>>>financially stable and go away from there life. Now to earn money can any
>>>>>one
>>>>>suggest some way..............or some other way to solve my problem.
>>>>>i don't want to wait for next 20 years when i will have sufficient money.
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>
>>
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