no One can not generalise and it would be branding us. Love is not gay nor hetrosexual. its just love. True dedicated honest loyal love does exist. Many times we close our eyes and are blind to its existence. Our hard set standards and parameters act like blinkers. How do you think arranged hetro marraiges survive? Are we ready to adjust accomodate. We maybe rejecting someone who truly loves us cares for us just because he is not our type or maybe hes a t/b or some such bullshit. We fail due to our own idiocrancies and inaneities. Lets not find problem in others first let us beging with ourself.
last but not the least if one is married then how can one do justice to both the parties? a wife kid and a BF? Own up to what ever decision you have taken and stick to it. Love is not a venture of the weak it is the privilige of the courageous. little prince-Sanjay N Lulla ________________________________ From: Adrian <revadr...@ymail.com> To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 1:01:52 PM Subject: RE: g_b Difficult to find a Partner The sooner you accept this, the better it will be for you. From:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com [mailto:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Sameer Raj Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 8:00 PM To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subject: g_b Difficult to find a Partner Hi everyone, well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the identity but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our world.i have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for the person that i would be happy to spend my life with. but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so and so yrs old complete secrecy assured....... sometimes they are so direct that it becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having one night stands or a hook up ..........is there nothing called love in this world............ well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of it, i would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a night stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end this is wat we all have to live with. i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i feel for those who think that being gay is just about having a night stand..........
