I did not mean to say that you will never be happy, I just wanted to say be
practical, know what you can and cannot have. You cannot play pool with a rope
and a lame person cannot win a sprint. And by that I dont mean to say that "we
are all ugly and we are all dumb, and we will never find anyone" I am no one to
make such a call. You may find love at 20, 30, 40, 50 at any age. All I meant
to say was be practical and know who you are and what you can and cannot
get/have.
When I go shopping I have a budget, there are shirts that sell for 3000 Rs and
all I can afford is to spend 1000-1500 Rs. I try to find happiness with the
1000 Rs shirt and I do succeed rather than being sad that I cannot afford 3000
Rs shirt.
btw I really liked it, I dont who the author is but its good:
kumodini jalhari base
chanda base akashi
jo jahi ke bhavta
so tahi ke pasi
If everyone had strength and unfalling conviction in their passion then
everyone in this world would be rich and happy. Life is not fair and its not a
fairytale, we dont get to chose our parents, our looks, our IQ but what we can
try is to make the best of what we have. Be practical - life would be easy and
you would be happy.
--- On Thu, 2/10/11, Tintin Mumbai India <tintin197...@gmail.com> wrote:
From: Tintin Mumbai India <tintin197...@gmail.com>
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Thursday, February 10, 2011, 5:37 AM
कमल खिले पानी में, / kamal khile paani me,चाँद चढे आकाश... / chaand
chadhe Akaash...जो जिसको है चाहता, / jo jisko hai chaahta,जाये उसी के पास... /
jaaye usi ke paas...(Nothing, just tried to translate it in Hindi)...
;)
On Thu, Feb 10, 2011 at 10:34 AM, Sanjay Lulla <sanjay_lulla2...@yahoo.com>
wrote:
kumodini jalhari base
chanda base akashi
jo jahi ke bhavta
so tahi ke pasi
is there strenght and unfalling conviction in your passion?
little prince-Sanjay N Lulla
From: Prem Nath <p.nat...@yahoo.com>
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Wed, February 9, 2011 6:39:36 PM
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
yes it is everyone's birth right to be happy and i want Hrithik Roshan and a
billion dollars to be happy, and I guess that should now be a very legitimate
want considering I have a birth right to be happy.
btw Mr. Bean is available for someone who asked, he had been waiting for a
little prince for a long long time, lets hope he gets his happiness.
--- On Wed, 2/9/11, Sanjay Lulla <sanjay_lulla2...@yahoo.com> wrote:
From: Sanjay Lulla <sanjay_lulla2...@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, February 9, 2011, 4:59 AM
Yes Cuteboy it is everyones birthright to be happy
little prince-Sanjay N Lulla
From: cuteboy <andherig...@yahoo.com>
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Tue, February 8, 2011 7:24:59 PM
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
Darpan jhoot na bole
lekin sabhi ke dil mein khush hone ki chaah hoti hain
--- On Mon, 7/2/11, Sanjay Lulla <sanjay_lulla2...@yahoo.com> wrote:
From: Sanjay Lulla <sanjay_lulla2...@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, 7 February, 2011, 2:11 PM
oh isnt Mr. Bean available anymore?? :p
little prince-Sanjay N Lulla
From: Prem Nath <p.nat...@yahoo.com>
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Mon, February 7, 2011 7:17:29 AM
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
we live in a world of fantasy, we all think we are elizabeth bennet and we
often cry for why are we not meeting mr. darcy. even after looking at mirror a
1000 times a day, for some reason we cannot accept the fact that may be we are
not elizabeth bennet but rather charlotte lucas or someone even more mundane,
but thats not the sad part, the sad part is that we are not even half as wise
as charlotte lucas was.
let us look at ourselves first as to what we are and what are we ready to offer
before complaining, if you are good looking- you would be taken (its a fact),
if you are wise (again you would be taken - its a fact), but unfortunately if
you are none of the above you may end up being single all your life waiting for
mr. darcy. if you are above 25 its time to face the reality
--- On Sun, 2/6/11, Manoj <zeus200...@yahoo.com> wrote:
From: Manoj <zeus200...@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Sunday, February 6, 2011, 5:17 PM
Love the last line u wrote Sanjay.
on the original topic --- u say u have written emails for finding the right
patner. But then can one really hope to find some one to love over a forum list
by soliciting a life partner?
I think the ida of meeting someone over this calls for an exceptional stroke of
luck......meet ppl at social events, interact, have frnds and there is a higher
probability of hitting it with the right guy.......coz in absence of above its
difficult fo both of u to know if u are the right guys or not.
Email, forum, online advt can typically serve little here.
Manoj
--- On Sun, 6/2/11, Sanjay Lulla <sanjay_lulla2...@yahoo.com> wrote:
From: Sanjay Lulla <sanjay_lulla2...@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Date: Sunday, 6 February, 2011, 10:49 AM
no One can not generalise and it would be branding us. Love is not gay nor
hetrosexual. its just love. True dedicated honest loyal love does exist. Many
times we close our eyes and are blind to its existence. Our hard set standards
and parameters act like blinkers. How do you think arranged hetro marraiges
survive? Are we ready to adjust accomodate. We maybe rejecting someone who
truly loves us cares for us just because he is not our type or maybe hes a t/b
or some such bullshit. We fail due to our own idiocrancies and inaneities. Lets
not find problem in others first let us beging with ourself.
last but not the least if one is married then how can one do justice to both
the parties? a wife kid and a BF? Own up to what ever decision you have taken
and stick to it.
Love is not a venture of the weak it is the privilige of the courageous.
little prince-Sanjay N Lulla
From: Adrian <revadr...@ymail.com>
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Sat, February 5, 2011 1:01:52 PM
Subject: RE: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
The sooner you accept this, the better it will be for you.
From: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com [mailto:gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf
Of Sameer Raj
Sent: Thursday, February 03, 2011 8:00 PM
To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Subject: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
Hi everyone,
well i am writing this not as someone who is new or fighting with the identity
but as a person who has tried everything to find a correct soulmate our world.i
have written many mails (subject : In search of a life partner) seeking for the
person that i would be happy to spend my life with.
but all replies i get hovers around sex and only sex or i am married and so and
so yrs old complete secrecy assured....... sometimes they are so direct that it
becomes hard for me to understand that does the gay world means just having one
night stands or a hook up ..........is there nothing called love in this
world............
well i believe that being gay is nothing wrong and one should be proud of it, i
would like to say that the only things that matters is not a hook up or a night
stand but love and commitment which would last forever because at the end this
is wat we all have to live with.
i would not like to write more as i am short of words about how sorry i feel
for those who think that being gay is just about having a night stand..........
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