Babu Babu, Think before you speak and go easy on this man. He made a mistake -- humans do that, the young especially. And he is setting about correcting it in decent, reasonable and honorable ways that seem to take everyone's needs into account. And he is doing it now, before children and further deception complicates matters.
To correct things, he is turning to his gay brothers for help, support and assistance. None of us need the same old conventional abuse and condemnation in such a situation, especially from the gay community we are asking to help us. Your attitude will only make it harder for all gay men to act with strength and foresight, to resist getting married, to stand up to a lifetime of social pressures. It was really unity and joining together which led to political, legal and social changes in the West and is having that effect in India. The forces of change began with a few drag-queens and continued through the rise of AIDS. Now we all benefit from the courage of many individuals acting together. Whether they are perfect or not, we can offer unity, support and sympathy to our gay brothers. Scott On Aug 6, 2012, at 6:50 PM, babu babu wrote: > U know that u are a gay still u got marred? Y u did so?U have spoiled a > girls' life. & brought shame to ur family. I know a silly excuse will be > given by all gays due to family pressure. Now also their is a pressure from > ur family to have sex with her. Can u do it? No one can justify it. > > --- On Mon, 6/8/12, karsh <karsh...@yahoo.com> wrote: > > From: karsh <karsh...@yahoo.com> > Subject: g_b nned help/cochin or chennai > To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com > Date: Monday, 6 August, 2012, 3:29 AM > > Hi, > I need help from my fellow friends. I need to know if there is some > advisory or counselling group in Cochin for me and my fsmily. I know I am gay > and i got married and now i came out and i am getting divorced now. My family > is still not accepting me. I want to know if there is any support group > either in Cochin or Chennai, where i can meet likeminded people and help > myself and others in my situation. > > Thanks and Regards, > Karsh > > > ------------------------------------ > > > Email: modera...@gaybombay.in > > E Groups: > > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay > > http://groups.google.com/group/Gaybombay > > http://groups.google.com/group/GayIndia > > Public archives at > http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html > > Rss feed: http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com/maillist.xml > > GB Internet Radio at http://www.gaybombay.in/gbradio > > Web Sites: > > www.gaybombay.in > > www.gayindia.org > > Orkut: > > http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#Profile?uid=15084918632470824129 > > Blogs: > > http://gaybombay.blogspot.com > > http://gaybombay.wordpress.com > > Twitter: > > http://twitter.com/gaybombay > > http://twitter.com/gayindia > > Facebook: > > http://www.facebook.com/gaybombay > > http://www.facebook.com/gayindia > Yahoo! Groups Links > > > > > >
