Please You also think twice before writing. Do you think this is a small mistake? Why you did not mention about the girl who underwent much agony by physically & mentally. What about her dreams of leading a lovely family?Do you think whether divorced men or women get easily another bride or groom?Kindly s do not see from your angle alone. these are all happened just because of his fault. When he was not confident of himself why he approved this marriage? Now he is seeking advice from like minded person? Why he didnt' do so before marriage? No psychologist or physciatrics in cochin or Bombay?
--- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, Scott <nycexpatagain@...> wrote: > > Babu Babu, > > Think before you speak and go easy on this man. He made a mistake -- humans > do that, the young especially. And he is setting about correcting it in > decent, reasonable and honorable ways that seem to take everyone's needs into > account. And he is doing it now, before children and further deception > complicates matters. > > To correct things, he is turning to his gay brothers for help, support and > assistance. > > None of us need the same old conventional abuse and condemnation in such a > situation, especially from the gay community we are asking to help us. > > Your attitude will only make it harder for all gay men to act with strength > and foresight, to resist getting married, to stand up to a lifetime of social > pressures. > > It was really unity and joining together which led to political, legal and > social changes in the West and is having that effect in India. The forces of > change began with a few drag-queens and continued through the rise of AIDS. > Now we all benefit from the courage of many individuals acting together. > > Whether they are perfect or not, we can offer unity, support and sympathy to > our gay brothers. > > Scott > > > > > > > > > > > > > On Aug 6, 2012, at 6:50 PM, babu babu wrote: > > > U know that u are a gay still u got marred? Y u did so?U have spoiled a > > girls' life. & brought shame to ur family. I know a silly excuse will be > > given by all gays due to family pressure. Now also their is a pressure > > from ur family to have sex with her. Can u do it? No one can justify it. > > > > --- On Mon, 6/8/12, karsh <karsh143@...> wrote: > > > > From: karsh <karsh143@...> > > Subject: g_b nned help/cochin or chennai > > To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com > > Date: Monday, 6 August, 2012, 3:29 AM > > > > Hi, > > I need help from my fellow friends. I need to know if there is some > > advisory or counselling group in Cochin for me and my fsmily. I know I am > > gay and i got married and now i came out and i am getting divorced now. My > > family is still not accepting me. I want to know if there is any support > > group either in Cochin or Chennai, where i can meet likeminded people and > > help myself and others in my situation. > > > > Thanks and Regards, > > Karsh > > > > > > ------------------------------------ > > > > > > Email: moderator@... > > > > E Groups: > > > > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay > > > > http://groups.google.com/group/Gaybombay > > > > http://groups.google.com/group/GayIndia > > > > Public archives at > > http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html > > > > Rss feed: > > http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com/maillist.xml > > > > GB Internet Radio at http://www.gaybombay.in/gbradio > > > > Web Sites: > > > > www.gaybombay.in > > > > www.gayindia.org > > > > Orkut: > > > > http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#Profile?uid=15084918632470824129 > > > > Blogs: > > > > http://gaybombay.blogspot.com > > > > http://gaybombay.wordpress.com > > > > Twitter: > > > > http://twitter.com/gaybombay > > > > http://twitter.com/gayindia > > > > Facebook: > > > > http://www.facebook.com/gaybombay > > > > http://www.facebook.com/gayindia > > Yahoo! Groups Links > > > > > > > > > > > > >
