I guess I will go back to reading only. Oh come on Judi, join in why don't you? I think everyone here knows that you are not stupid and since there are no "stupid" questions, then you probably just got stung by the written word.
I find that often conversations that would go well if we were face to face, go less well in writing because it is not so immediate as speech. And sometimes my answers come out sounding much more harsh in writing than they were intended to be. Your questions (and mine) help us all learn. Nancy
