salamu alaykum, the following story is a true life story that really need advice so that l wont go astray.my name is farida and am a moslem from a moslem background.sometimes last year after ramadan l meet this brother by name Taofik he came to me and said he likes me and he wants to marry me we should just be praying for Allah to direct us . so l took my time to study him cos we work in the same environment and l always see him observe his praying regulary and l do see him anytime l attend islamic lecture on sundays.not untill febuary this year he came to me and said that each time he think about settle down something keep runing in his mind saying am his wife so l asked him if he is married? atleast have study him and am not getting younger and l need to settle down with a good moslem that have the fear of Allah and will love me for the sake of ALLAH and he said yes his married so why do u want to marry another wife?he said he was in the world when he got married to his wife so he didnt bother weather she is a christian or not infact she is from a christian background and they didnt get married in the mosque but after some years he now realize he was not in the right part and started practicing his own religion( lslam) again cos he is from a moslem background by then it was late cos he try converting his wife but she is now deep in christianity and to worsen the sitution they dont have any issue till now so she is always in the church but he tried to stop her and she is not ready to change and that is why he want to get married to a moslem cos he does not want to make another mistake. cos his mother was always advicing him to get married to a muslem untill she passed out so after all this l told him that we should be praying for allah direction and we are now very close infact planinng on how to go and see my people but he told me somethings again that is affecting me now cos is like am going to loose him and also l dont want to be disobiedent to Allah subhana watahala. what he told me is that he has a child in the uk with a christian woman but they are not maried so he want me to get pregnant as soon as possible so that he can have what to use to convience his wife cos they are not divorce and also the woman that have his baby and we will now get married in a moslem and he will settle with me forever. please advice me on what to do and also what l will also tell him as a piece of advice from my fellow moslem brothers and sisters.cos l believe there people out there that have knowledge and we continue to seek for from there that is why am putting it in writing
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