> my question to anyone who cares to give me an opinion is should i keep it > chet, or change it to ry?
my $.02 I'd keep it Chet. And I don't think it's disrespectful at all. Plus, (and I don't know the phrasing, of course) I always like a little internal rhyme. Something about "Chet" and "better" sounds right. lots of love Anne