Will, Nothing I appreciate more than a man telling me how I should feel! Normally if someone is insulted by something I say, I just apologize and think before I open my mouth again.
--- Bree wrote: > I think she thought you were surprised that there could *actually* be a hot > (sexy, attractive) lesbian in the room. (or anywhere for that matter) EXACTLY BREE! I am not insulted that you find a lesbian attractive GEEZ! It's that you seem surprised that you do. As far as your flirting with your lesbian friends. A flirt is a flirt, it doesn't matter, a flirt - flirts. I happen to be huge flirt, ask any woman in Chicago, for that matter around the country, and some men. LOL! sad but true! AND I would most definitely NOT be in your HOT category - nor would I care to be. Still, men and women flirt with me. I may very well be the only one who took it this way or the only one who will admit it. I don't care, THIS is the way I feel. Too often in our society the invisible lesbian stays in the back ground, just not to make waves and tries to appease everyone. Clearly this is not my style. The latent stereotyping and bigotry is just as bad, cause it breeds and seeds more than an out right bigot. BY the way which pile would you put Joan Armatrading in the "lesbian" or with the "crazy black women" - Hmmm? Must say I would be insulted by your reference to "crazy black women" as well, were I black, WIll. Overall it wasn't that big a deal just wanted to point it out and let you know invisible or not WE ARE HERE! Seems recently someone here was taken to task for a racial reference - sound familiar? Still ... Peace, Susan --- William Chavez <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Susan > > This was not meant as an insult nor was this a backhanded anything! I have > quite a few lesbian friends who love it when I flirt with them because they > know I respect them and nothing will go beyond the flirting. I have found > that my lesbian friends that are paired up are probably the most comfortable > with this kind of playing around. I'm sorry you took offense to it because > if anything it was meant to flatter. I hope you were the only one who took > it this way, if not I know I'm going to get bombarded with emails tomorrow. > Is it the Hot part that you are disturbed about? I hope you don't think that > I can't find a woman attractive just because its obvious she is a lesbian? I > guess I'm not sure what actually bothered you. > Will > > > > > > > >From: Susan Guzzi <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > >To: William Chavez <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > >CC: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > >Subject: Re: Joan Armatrading/Barry White NJC > >Date: Tue, 3 Dec 2002 22:08:18 -0800 (PST) > > > > > >--- William Chavez <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > >Anybody a Joan Armatrading fan? > > > > > > > > > She is great in concert!!!! > >It was just me in a sea of lesbians (and some of them were very HOT!) > > > >What a surprise! :-o You mean just like in a sea of straight women? ... > >"Some" of them are very > >hot. I just wondered. There are lesbians here too ya know. > > > >I know I said my last post was my last post, but I just couldn't pass up > >responding to this back > >handed compliment or insult. > > > >Peace, > >Susan Yahoo! Mail Plus - Powerful. Affordable. Sign up now. http://mailplus.yahoo.com
