I hope I am right in thinking this post has enough Joni content, I first put NJC on top but then took it out - do tell me if you think I'm wrong!
Chris Marshall wrote: I've spent an unhealthy amount of time navel-gazing, analyzing what's going on in my head, analyzing what I want out of life, analyzing my emotions, and so on. I've come to the conclusion that Joni appeals to a large amount of GLBT folk because many of these people have been through the same process, are going through it, or are aware that they should, and end up empathising so strongly with her lyrics. Anyone with me on this one? :) - --Chris Marshall My reply: yes Chris, I'm very much with you on that one. At least in this way: I think we are all pretty introspective and emotionally intelligent on this list, and that is one of the things that keeps us together. In fact, it is because I identify so much with the struggle most gays have to go through (because I have had my own struggles for different reasons) that I am probably, if anything, "prejudiced" in favour of gays. I feel that by being honest about their sexuality in spite of so much opposition, they have often reached a maturity and understanding of life that appeals to me. And I am convinced it is this type of (gay or otherwise) person that discovers this list and sticks with it, because it really suits them. And Joni's texts affirm that. And speaking for myself, what attracted me most to Joni's music to start off with (and probably still does) is the music itself, not the lyrics, wonderful as they are. Albums like Hejira and THOSL first of all draw me for their sound. It is a subtle, complex sound, full of moods which again will attract a more sensitive sort of person, in my opinion. But on the other hand, I think if you did a survey of people who have bought Joni Mitchell records over the years, I think the gay percentage will be much lower than on this list, because I think her music is not of the typical "gay diva" type which seems to attract the biggest gay followings. I could well be wrong, but that's my impression. And quickly something else: I agree with Patrick Leader, I would hate to see people using further subsections of lists to discuss certain subjects. Quite simply: I would never get to them, and be very sorry to be missing out! This does not mean I really do read everything, I do need to sometimes scan and scroll through, but at least I know WHAT I am missing! I would hope that everybody who sees subjects of no interest could just press the delete button without too much bother. This is not an argument against the JC-NJC split, that seems to make good sense if some people want to cut back that drastically what they receive, but for those of us who have agreed to accept wider posts, I think we will just get into cliques and disappear if we go off on sub-lists! Lots of love to you al, Lieve. ______________________________________________________________ This message may contain privileged information. If you have received this message by mistake, please keep it confidential and return it to the sender. Although we have taken steps to minimise the risk of transmitting software viruses, the EBRD accepts no liability for any loss or damage caused by computer viruses and would advise you to carry out your own virus checks. The contents of this e-mail do not necessarily represent the views of the EBRD. ______________________________________________________________