Oh well - I guess Joni just isn't the "commitment" type. I think any man who enters into a relationship with Joni now probably understands that, if she doesn't make it clear to them from the outset.
I admire her free spirit, I must say. I'm at a time in my life now where I'm wondering if I'm a settle-down type of guy or a wanderer. Both ways of being appeal to me, as I'm sure they do to Joni. The safety and security of a stable love creates friction with a perceived loss of indepence, living for yourself but also for another, never truly being alone. Your decisions always influence another person when in a realtionship and you soon "talk of love in terms of sacrifice and compromise." On the other hand, the freedom and indepence of singlehood or casual dating can sometimes spiral down to loneliness and isolation and you yearn for that togetherness, that warmth of another body, another soul, another mind. See above for the problems with togetherness! It's a vicious circle, this love. But... I'd be nothing without love... -Andrew Yahoo! Mail Plus - Powerful. Affordable. Sign up now. http://mailplus.yahoo.com
